Tell my boyfriend to man up?

[Anonymous]

So I'm dating this really great guy, but the thing is he's really sensitive. I know finding a sensitive guy is rare and lucky, but sometimes he's really overbearing and wimpy. How can I nicely tell him to man up a little?

[PJSparkle]

Ditch the idea that finding a sensitive guy is rare. Think about it, do you really need him to be your shopping buddy, and braid your hair? Do you have chick friends for that?

If this doesn't work out for you, consider a medium tough guy next time. Yeah, they can be hard to understand, but find one that is on your intellectual level, and is willing to talk when there's a problem , and you'll find that he'll be willing to work things out in most cases.

And he'll slap your ass and make you call him daddy.

[toulouse]

no/. yo knew who he was when you met.you knew what your idea of what you think a man is supposed to be. when you met him as well.

this him. you have no right to try to change him for your convenience. if you don't like him. move on. anyways imo man up is a euphemism for 'control me' . what's the point?

[alicious]

tell him that you have always wanted to have a boyfriend who could protect you and stand up for you and be a strong and manly just like he is ;) .. he'll try to get up to your expectations..

[PJSparkle]

I love that trick. My version is. "Thank you for always taking out the trash on time."

[TheUglyOne]

Well, you can breakup with him, that ought to man him up in bitterness.

Or you can just tell him, but I doubt it will work, people's temperaments don't change just like that.

[xXxAx3LxXx]

Girl with Good Guy = Wants him to Man Up

Girl with bad guy = Likes him even though he treats you like sh*t.

Wtf @female logic.

[TheBlaxican]

Mess around with him and call him a wimp. Just hint at it that he's too sensitive

[Anonymous]

sounds like he doesn't know he's gay yet