Don't ask for girls advice on this issue...they are very bias. Waiting 5-7 days is brilliant. There's about 25 reasons why. Many women have been brain washed into thinking that if a guy waits more than 3 days...he's just a player.Waiting to call makes you less predictable, and more mysterious. She's going to think...I thought he liked me? Why isn't he calling? She will think about you constantly...to the point she is no longer sure of herself any longer...and when she least expects it..you will call. If she has high interest level, a good attitude, and is not a structured girl, then she will be happy to hear from you. Bonus...if she happens to ask what took you so long...bingo.! girls with low interest level won't ask. If she is ticked off that it took you so long (as most on this forum would be)...she will hang up...or cuss you out. That's great! Keeps you from wasting time and money on undeserving chicks. When she accepts a date from you...treat her like a lady. My main point is, if the girl has high interest level in you before you call, but refuses a date because you didn't call for 5 days...then she needs a CAT scan. Only wait 5-7 days if you meet and get the number in person. If you meet the girl online and get her number...you need to call with in 24 hours.
lmfao. If he believes that work then up to him but the responses prove that most women don't respond to such things and if a girl wait around then its because she hadn't met anyone else during that time
The responses only prove that most women have bad attitudes...and are much too quick to jump to conclusions, and assume the worst about a guy. I don't ask for a number unless I'm seriously interested in you...and I assume most smart women won't hand out their number to just anyone. Nobody likes waiting...but its foolish to say you would forget about the person after 5 days.
You have no idea how wrong you are. I dare you to get a girls number and call after 7 days. She won't remember you by your name. You will have to explain to her where you met her at. Try that one day. Call her and don't tell her where you met her just say "hey this is tom" etc and see. She won't remember you
Justme20...you and me normally agree on here...whats wrong with you? LOL. However..you are brilliant! That's exactly right! A girl with low interest level won't remember me, or my name. I don't want to waste my time treating her like a lady only to find out 3 weeks later that the only reason she has been going out with me, is because her refrigerator is empty...and she's bored, and hungry. But, a girl with high IL would not forget...and already did a background check, and looked me up on FB.
@justme20. Waiting 5-7 days ONLY WORKS ON GIRLS WITH HIGH INTEREST LEVEL. I only wait if I got her number in person...if I meet her online...I call within 24 hours
Because I knew I'd get a lot of DOWN arrows from a lot of confused women...and I'd rather the Anonymous User get them,instead of Bassman :) lol
lol
what would be the point of waiting for 5 to 7 days? you already know she likes you cause she gave the number to you.
waiting that long really does make us lose interest because we think, nah he isn't interested.
now he is just calling cus he is bored.
YOU GOT THE GIRL ALREADY, NO POINT IN WAITING.
getting a phone number does NOT mean she has high interest level. There are tons of girls who don't like to say no...or don't like confrontation because some moron gets ticked off that she won't give him her number. Then there are some girls who just like the attention...so they give their number out to everyone...sometimes they will accept a date...sometimes they won't.
Last 2 comments 4 Miss OutBreak: I'm sorry you can't tell me that if you were extremely interested in a guy...you gave him your number...that in 5 days you would lose interest. Sure, you might start thinking, you misread him for being interested, but you can't make me believe you would lose interest to the point where you wouldn't talk to him when he called, or wouldn't accept a date. Getting a girls number is not even close to getting the girl.
the downvotes were by girls I bet, I gave you an up vote
Yes...girls that need to look at things from a guys perspective. Personally, I cannot stand to wait even one or two days...so waiting 5-7 days is torture! But, I know that waiting is in my best interest. Thanks for your vote moviedude!
Lol yo f what these girls are talking about. Women dont know what they want but they know what they dont want. They gave that man there number because they wanted him. They hate that they created the game and we have counter strategies. No high value man will call as soon as they say he should. Girls wanna play the games with out us playing the games right back. Let me give you a example I just got this girls number I was talking to her and I mentioned her car how her friend was bragging for her and she was wanting to go from Camaro to Corvette because she seen one other car of hers in our city. She almost went with the z01 which is way more expensive and I said yep I'm the same way it is because you wanna have what others can't afford to have AMD she said yes that is the exact reason. She doesn't know that she just gave me the game to manipulate her with game. She is saying I like what is scars what other women want but can't have because it makes her feel more valuable if she can get someone or something that others want but can't afford. Being so good at psychology and being a pro poker player gives me a huge edge.
I'll put it this way. If you are the girl who gives her number to any Tom, Dick, or Harry...then disregard this. I assume most girls give their number only to those guys who really catch their attention. I would say the girls interest level would have to be at least 70-80%. Nobody likes waiting...however...a guy or a girl would both have to be insane to forget, or not accept a date from the opposite gender because they called 5 days later. Think about it...you girls who say you would forget him...are saying you would forget a guy...and not accept a date from a guy whom you gave your personal number too. Craziness!
lol when I read this my first respond was like, WTF WAIT 5 TO 7 DAYS? ha ha ha ha
this is the tip of the day.
if you get a girls phone number, later that day text her and say, hey I'm checking to see if I got the number correct. or call her and say the same thing, just to get that ball rolling.
or call and say what ever lol
mostly for those shy ones that's not sure how to start the convo.
yes waiting to long will make a girl think your not interested.
and it has happened befor, a guy asked for my number and I gave it to him, I waited for days for him to call.. after 5 days I thought he was never going to call, by then I thought he lost interest and I met another guy and he called right away and I already learn about his whole life story by the time the other guy call.
also how can a girl be head over hills for this strange when he hasn't called to talk to her? lol
it doesn't make you look bad to call the same day or next day.
in fact I prefer it!.. I'm so excited that I hope he calls like RIGHT AWAY LOL.
like that chick said " HELL I ALREADY FORGOT ABOUT HIM" LOL
listen to the women in here, were letting you know from a women perspective.
Sorry. I agree with the other women. No way! If he waited 5 days to a whole week to phone me...I won't not be receptive at all. By day 4 I'm loosing interested and certain that if he is comfortable spending a whole week doing other things and not thinking about ways to include me/take me out again, then he is probably to busy for me.
Don't do it. Your judgement here is flawed. You'll only catch the crazies or seriously desperate but hey, maybe that is what you are going for?
@bassman the women are telling you how it is. lol wipe your subconscious of this one week rule that they taught you in the guy's circle. It doesn't work. A woman will wait when in a relationship but a single woman will not wait for a "great guy" she is gonna cut her losses and start looking for another "great" guy.
Generally speaking, when I give a guy number, it's because I'm into him, know him aka an actual friend of mine, I know that he is going to call soon. If I gave my number to a guy I hit on or who hit on me and I'd only met him once or twice and he waited a week to call especially if he asked for my number in the first place, I'd assume that he wasn't interested. Plenty of fish in the sea. And I prefer the once who actually call ... the sooner the better in my opinion. Shows that he is keen.
ugh. I hate that. I am the type of girl who will forget about you after five days, so don't wait that long. If show that I am into you, text me the next day and say great talking to you last night or whatever. If I wait a few days and nothing I will write you off as not being into me and move on to the next guy
it has happened before. I just cut my losses if I have to wait and think "oh he was just nice"
hmmmm maybe David Beckham :p hahahahaha
i wouldn't say, I wouldn't go on a date if he called me 5 days later.
it just will seem awkward cause by then I already believe that he isn't interested.
if he called me, I wouldn't go on a date, id just talk to him to see if he is going to wait a month to tell me his name lol
lol funny
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I wouldn't like that. I expect a text the night itself or a day later. If he calls, I'd rather have him call me one or two days later than almost a week. If he can't call me within the week, that's a sign he's not that into me.
but what if he does call you. it would be clear he's into you.
That's kinda why I'd give someone my number. You know, to actually call me. Not a sign he's clearly into me, but a sign that there might be possible interest.
I agree.
I wouldn't say no, but I would wonder why it took him so long to call me
Yeah, but I wouldn't be as bothered, if he would be bothered he wouldn't wait a week to call me. If he was interested, he would call me within 2 days. After that I just kinda "forget" I gave him my number and think he was just being polite or something
No way dude! If a guy waited that long to contact me I would prob feel like he wasn't that interested and just move on. Don't play games girls hate that sh*t. If you're feelin her call her within a day or 2. She will appreciate you for doing so:)
Ha ha...you make little sense. A guy shows interest in you...you both have a great conversation...he seems different than all of the other jerks you been with. He asks for your number...you gladly give it to him...but regardless of the reason...he calls 5 days later to take you out...and you would say NO?
Look if I'm feelin someone and I have their number I call or text to show my interest right away. I don't play games. If he wants to drag it out and wait around for awhile then his loss. If I'm really interested in a guy I'm not gonna be scared away if he contacts me right away I would prob respect him more. My question for you is why even ask any of our opinions if you obviously do not want to hear them? All the girls on here have basically said what I said and all you do is argue your point.
My point is arguing is this. First..I agree...I don't like to wait to hear back from a girl I whom I left a message...no one likes waiting. The point I'm trying to make is...most girls on here are jumping to conclusions, and making assumptions as to why the guy did not call with in her 3 day time frame. Sure there's a lot of bad guys out there...but there are a lot of good ones too. Should at least get to know the guy before you pass judgement or forget about him.
exactly. I don't understand why men think it works.
@bassman how can we get to know the guy if he's not calling us? We owe you NOTHING! We can forget about you if we choose. There are plenty of other guys out there that don't need to play these idiotic games that we can spend our time with. I'm not making any assumption as to why the guy hasn't called only stating that my interest level would plummet if he didn't. Since you are so positive this will work why don't you try it out and then come back and tell all of us how it worked for you;)
boys4me...You have to look at if from a guys perspective. How do we discern between the girls who are really interested, and the girls who accept dates because they are just bored or their refrigerator is empty? We won't to find the girl who has the most interest level in us, as we possibly can. I have done this many times with great success. However, I NEVER wait more than 24 hours if I didn't get her number in person.
You just proved my point! The higher interest I have in a guy the more likely my feelings are gonna be hurt if he waits a long time to contact me and the more likely I am to turn him down because I would feel like his interest in me isn't very high and he's just bored and lookin for something to do. It's the girls that accept your date after making them wait for awhile that you should be concerned about because they are the ones who are just bored and don't have very many other options. Get it? :)
Everything in moderation, 5-7 is too long but 0-2 is too short. Yes, it does show he's interested if he contacts within 0-2 days and it also shows he's not busy and therefore probably doesn't have a life and he's desperate. I've met very few girls who find desperation attractive and that's what it is likely to come off as if you contact same day or next day. Like it or not everyone wants at least a little bit of challenge and the sooner you call the less of a challenge you are and the faster they'll lose interest. Oh, they may still go out with you and even have sex with you but odds are they'll lose interest quickly. Too much of a challenge is also a problem so can't wait too long either. I say 3-4 days is ideal, just make sure you have a solid plan in mind none of the nonsense where you try to get her to decide the plans don't ask for any input at all. Pick the day, plan the day, ask for the day.
By this time, I would think that he is un-interested and would be shocked to hear from him.
No. No, never. If a give a guy my number and he calls me a freaking week later, I'm already too mad to even consider him.
I voted D...to be honest with you, depending on how often she is approached, she will either:
forget who you are
be talking to guys who aren't playing games like you, and will dismiss you
I would be like, "Well sh*t, I already met another guy and he called right away. So, you're an idiot, k, bye."
exactly
Dude you gotta wait at least a month or else it will seem too needy.
i'd be long gone by then. I'd be like ummm who? I don't remember? hahahahaha
lol this was funny
all the girls said no and one guy said wait a week. who would you listen to? Trust me it doesn't work, bad bad bad idea
If he waits that long then I won't even remember who he is by the time he calls. I would have already met someone better by then.
I would have already moved on. If you really wanted a girls number then you wouldn't wait 5-7 days to call her.
After 5-7 days I already forgot about him
you see, we know lots of guys are out there playing games or working on their game, so even if a guy was really great and really nice and we would really be interested in him, we also have to consider the possibility that it was just a game... that is why waiting a week doesn't work. women are less tolerant these days. we don't wait for long anymore, so if your really interested show her but do not smother her
Well...I got a number from this chick at a wedding. The next day my grandma whom I was very close to died. I was not in the mood to call for a week. When I called her...i didn't explain what happened...instead I asked her out...she was happy to hear from me...and she agreed to the date. Seems like you girls jump to conclusions way too early...before you ever know the guy.
compare the numbers. one to 7?
I don't want everysingle girl to remember me...thats not my goal. My goal is to only date the ones with high interest level, who do remember...those are the ones worth dating. You give your numbers to other guys, who like clockwork...call with in 3 days...so predictable...just like always...they don't have a life.
I'm sorry...but if you truly HAD high IL in a guy...it would not be possible to forget him in 5 or so days.(unless you're bi polar). Hundreds of questions a day are posted on here from women who are head over heals about a guy who hasn't called and its been 4-5 days. They tell me they can't think about anything else, but him...and they are panicking as to what's going on. The reason I do this is because a massive amount of women (not on here) say it actually raises their IL.
Just call her
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