How can you tell if a guy's intentions?

[Anonymous]

This is a large question(s)

1) how do you know if he's being nice vs he likes you

2) he wants to JUST sleep with you vs dating/actual feelings

3) are there any ways to tell how a guy views you by actions? Examples?

4) are these signs of interest:

guy breathing heavily around you?

Looking at your lips?

Touching you (hips, waist, hand, arm), BUT NO IN A CREEPER OR SEXUAL WAY

Other signs?

Sorry for all the questions . I will answer yours

[iNeedYourAdvice]

1) the biggest clue is physical proximity. A guy isn't just being friendly if he stands close to you and breaks the touch barrier early.

2) The truth is; you really can't.. Unless he expresses it too you deliberately by asking to be fwb... If he doesn't you won't find out unilateral after you've been used.

3) Well, if he breaks the touch barrier by say, touching your hand and then progressively gets more intimate you could probably assume he's a decent guy and respects you. If he grinds on you straight away, he probably views you as a sexual object only.

4) Short answer, yes.. If he's looking at your lips chances are he wants to kiss you, but isn't brave enough (or arrogant enough) to go for for it on his own. He doesn't want to put you off. If you're interested look at his lips too and he should get the idea.

These answers are based of my experience, I hope they help you out.. Even just generally. :)

[Nic92]

1. Staring at you is a good start. Try looking at him from the corner of your eyes sometimes, if you catch him than great.

2. A serious guy will probably be more patient and chase after you for a longer time.

3. Hard to say. Unless you start acting really easy-going and be around him all the time then I don't think you can tell.

3. Breath heavy? No idea. Looking at your lips? Not sure. Touching? Definitely, yeah.

[dragonfly6516]

Players don't want you to know it, so they will hide you, and evidence of other victims from the world., Guys who are about sex will test the waters early one by seeing how you react to more invasive contact. Certain parts of the body are subconsciously more guarded for personal safety and these areas are considered inmate. Head, neck, chest, stomach, inner parts of the shoulder. If he's touching these areas too soon, that's a red flag. If he stands really close to you and kind of over you, he's claiming you as his, if he stands near to you but more open and away, he is respecting your personal space.

[PeaceHere]

great answer. I can sympathize.

[MeridiansAAngel]

1. Women around the world stuggle with this one, not just you.

2. He'll take you on dates or out in public, calls you Not just texts, maybe meeting the parents?

3. touching and staring usually means he likes you.

4. yes all of those!

-love Sosa

[regenderate]

1) he likes you 2) he wants to sleep with you and maybe dating 3) actions speak obviously just

Ike in any other situation 4) yes, of course

[Anonymous]

1) by his actions

2) again...by his behavior

3) general question, but I guess if he respects you then he'll be a gentleman

4) breathing heavy, no

eyeing lips means he's thinking about a kiss

touching is usually flirting