For the Females only

[zalew]

Since joining the site how many times have you been asked if you would send a picture of your breasts etc,to the person you are chatting to?

[MrOracle]

Unfortunately, this is going to happen on any sex/relationship-type site on the Internet. Realize that the Internet gives a lot of young and/or insecure/immature guys some anonymity, and they hide behind that to make rude requests that they'd never have the guts to do in person.

Also, keep in mind that if even 1% of guys do that, it's going to seem like a lot on a website with well over 100,000 regular users. And on a sex-related website aimed at teens and 20s, it's likely to be closer to 5-10%, because a site like this attracts far more of the types of guys who do that.

So, know that up-front, don't be overly offended by it, grow some thick skin, and learn to use the site's tools to block people who you aren't comfortable with. And remember, 90% of the guys here AREN'T doing this.

[kholland65]

This ^

[Betwyn]

I think its more then 5-10% lol...

[MrOracle]

To be fair, Betwyn, some of your posts have been the type that will specifically get guys to make overtly sexual passes at you. I applaud you for sharing, but at the same time, you have to know that some subjects will draw this type of attention, in larger-than-average numbers.

[zalew]

I was asking out of curiosity I'm not complaining. HaHa

[MrOracle]

I know. But others may not understand your somewhat unique point of view. :)

[madhatters4]

crazy kind of stinks to be a girl... It's funny though I don't think I'd take any offense to a girl asking for a pic of my stuff. I guess it's something different among the sexes where I'd imagine most men would be OK and slightly flattered to be asked to send pics of their junk but women (and I agree with it and probably would feel the same way) find it gross to be asked by guys for pics of their goods

[kholland65]

This as well ^

[EmpressMe]

A few times. Mostly, I'll delete the guy on the spot. There was one guy who I talked to for quite a while and he always insisted that I send him breast pics and have web sex with him. I know for sure of a user here who sent him p**** pics and he's like 21/she's 15 or 16 desperate GAG guys taking advantge of insecure girls who need to flash their p**** or t*ts to feel good! smh

[Anonymous]

So on my old account, I added everyone who requested it (unless I recognized their name as someone who only ever makes sexual remarks or someone I just don't get along with). I got asked for nudes once and got sent nudes twice (completely unsolicited and without me showing any sign of interest).

On this new account, none, because I don't talk to anyone :P

[Opinion Owner]

Oh but if we're also including people who just randomly try to cyber with you, that's a lot more...

[scnbabe89]

Every time I went on the chat that's on here. I don't know if they still have that chat but I don't open it or if it opens I close it down. I don't let anyone whos close to me see that so some creppy guy will never see it.

[Deft_maiden]

I don't " chat "for that same reason. I have been asked for my picture and other personal info plenty of times. Honestly I don't see why I should. There are plenty of more appropriate sites for that type of activity.

[MrOracle]

But you are such a HOT granny!

[LosingMyVcard]

Lmao!

[Deft_maiden]

@ Mr oracle and vcard Yeah I'm sexy and I know it! Granny rules! :P

[WavyCherry]

Like 15 times before I made my profile private, deleted people, and quit adding everyone who requested to be my friend.

[Betwyn]

Somewhere between 94 and 103...

but if you count repeat requests it jumps up to at least 512...

[Claireluvskaren]

LOL, I didn't count repeat requests,

[pootie]

lol

do girls do the reverse? or if one does is it likely just a dude with a girl profile?

that is creepy tho

[zalew]

girls do it to.

[Betwyn]

Girls will rarely straight out ask for a pic...

I have asked a few guys.. but its always more as part of a conversation, and part of a longer running flirtationship.

Not..

Hey I just met you,

And this is crazy..

Send me a d*** pic,

and I'll cyber maybe...

[zalew]

The question reads, 'while you where chatting'... not have you randomly been asked...

[billme1070]

On this site...None. On Yahoo or AOL I couldn't count the times.

[Shyscot]

Nobody's asked me for pictures of my chest. I feel so left out...

[Anonymous]

God thanks for the great idea ... never thought of asking the guys who add me for a d*** pick

[Claireluvskaren]

A few times per week,

[Anonymous]

a lotttttttttttttttttttt