How can a girl reduce her intimidatingness?

[Jollyrancher]

I've been told on countless occasions that I seem intimidating because of my competitive and sarcastic nature. I grew up as a competitive athlete amongst two brothers who always kept me on my toes with the constant pranks we used to play on one another.(one is a rugby player and the other is a marine) so I feel like that combination taught me how to stick up for myself and not take any bullsh*t but when it comes to dating I feel like this makes me unapproachable . How can I change this without compromising my beliefs?

[K3v3n]

Hahaha that's awesome,u sound like the girl with the perfect attitude for me..k anyways..stop looking into pansys, simple, if that's how you r, there should be no reason for you to accommodate to someone elses lack of balls, I'd say find tougher dudes

[Racez]

You just need to dress a little bit more girlie and fashionably stylish.

Also, smiling a lot can help reduce your intimidation to almost zero.