Okay girls seriously, what sparks your interest when a guy talks to you? (Page 2)
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Ahh. For me personally, it's intelligence. I'd probably be really intimidated if a guy I deemed more intelligent than myself approached me, but I'd also be really interested in his opinions and what he had to say.
Damn. This came across a little more narcissistic than I intended.
I don't think that much of myself. I'm far from brilliant. I just like people who are smart. They are fascinating and I feel like I can learn from them, like it'd take longer to figure out how they work, how they tick.
its not what you say its more or less your demeanor and your personality if you are intellectually equiped then you when us over plus if you look good and happen to not be conceited or cocky with how you approach us that's a plus
I won't lie, first it is physical attraction. You honestly can't be with someone if you don't find them attractive. Then after that, personality will win over all. If the guy is attractive but a complete d**k then I'll wave goodbye!
Nice smile, cute laugh, complimentary, almost possessive? like not afraid to show jealousy because another guy is looking my way, makes me smile, etc, I'm sure you've heard it all
nothing perverted is good...cut the oh God your so beautiful! keep that for later...:) I personally love a mysterious man nothing I can figure out too quickly
His SMELL! OMG I love good fresh smelling men! I love it when guys look at you as if they're staring deep within your soul. His confidence, smile, charm... Smell really draws me in though
The way he's dressed is very important. I love blazers. I think guys can never go wrong with blazers and shoes (not sneakers).
A guy HAS TO BE MY TYPE. Point blank! NOTHING ELSE will spark my interest other than that! I like kind good looking white guys and believe in MUTUAL attractions. No games and no gimmicks. A guy CANNOT be the opposite of what a woman wants! We WILL NOT SETTLE! That's all.
Ask me about me, all women love to talk about themselves, and if they're one of those self deprecation types, tell them they're wrong and that they're gret.
They'd have to be pretty aggressive...okay..maybe not like scary/aggressive XD but persistent. If they are funny, nice, killer smile, awww dimples, and a nice laugh/voice.
I totally agree!
^_^ well, someone else doesn't. lol XDBut thanks.
The guy didn't have intention of hitting on me cause dude, stop sweating and giving me the prey look. Second, it is not threaten. It was "Hi, how are you? What do you think?"
Charisma. Personally for me, it's always what he said that got me interested. I'm a sucker for guys with a wicked sense of humour and the confidence he exudes could easily charm me.
Humor is very important. Do we have the same sense for humor. Does he make me laugh. I hate meaningless convo. Though I guess you have to get those questions out of the way at some point. It's all about the way you come across. Are you trying to hook up with me or are you genuinely interested in me. Personally I'm a little skeptical of a lot of guys intentions. So maybe try keeping that in mid when you make your first impression.
Someone that I find attractive and hilarious. Any topics are easy topics if you have both of those characteristics.
His looks, smile, and the sound of his voice.
I don't care what topic he brings up - Attractive and makes me laugh.
There is one universal common interest: HER.
Also, don't forget you have to be funny (without being cheesy) and be confident.
Good luck!
The way the guy comports himself, the things he says, the gestures that accompany his words. Do his actions follow with what he's said? If so, then I am potentially interested in him. If not, I walk.
can you let me know what you mean by gestures that apply to the words?
You don't SAY one thing and then DO another.
When a guy has similar convictions as me.
If he dresses well and/or has a killer smile, he has my attention.
For me it's mainly the humor. If he can make me laugh and he understands my humor you've got a good start. Physical appearance yes to a certain extent, though the humor and confidence is most important ^^.
Humor. Any time a guy comes up to me and cracks a few jokes, I'm instantly interested. Being funny makes him entertaining and fun to be around. It takes the pressure off of getting to know each other. It makes me want to talk to him even more.
His vibe, personality, hygiene, intelligence...? Not sure, it's a cocktail of things.