My boyfriend doesn't change his boxers often, is this normal?

[Anonymous]

I noticed my boyfriend wears one boxers for 4-7 days and he even sleep with it , So he wearss it all the time. I was a little shocked but maybe it's normal among boys?

he is my first boyfriend, and I don't have any brothers.. so I don't know if it's something normal or not?

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and when I do him blowjob I feel kinda grossed out because of this ..

[Anonymous]

When I was young I used to date a guy who also didn't change his boxers every day. I am not sure how often he changed them, but I remember I was shocked when I'd spent the first night with him and in the morning (after a shower) he was still wearing the same boxers.

I've read many times that not all men change their underwear daily. If you look on google, there are many articles, statistics and whatnot about this subject. Here's an article for example: link

I can totally understand that you feel grossed out when you give him oral. When I was dating that guy, I actually told him eventually that I'd find it better if he changed his underwear more frequently. It's a delicate subject, and I felt a bit weird talking to him about it as I didn't want to hurt his feelings. But I tried to be as nice about it as I could, i.e. didn't tell him I thought it was dirty, gross, etc. I think I asked him "why don't you change your boxers every day?". I think some men probably aren't even aware that they should change daily or that it might be gross to a woman if they wear the same underwear for more than a day.

[Anonymous]

Urggggh for sure gross... I could not deal with my partner being like that hygiene is necessary. He sounds lazy and doesn't seem to care...

[upsyndrome]

sit down with him and tell him "wash your clothes, d***"

[Evonious93]

I don't know, I've known a few other people who do t change them daily but I'd say a week is bit on the long side to not change them. I'd just tell him, look, they stink I'm not gonna do anything with you until you change them! Give him some motivation to change them haha

[Arics]

That's really gross. I shower every day, as well as only wear a pair of boxers once before washing them. If there is one article of clothing you don't wear multiple days it's underwear... They must smell absolutely disgusting.

[Kayo512]

thats not normal that's just bad hygiene. does he shower daily? there is really no excuse to wear boxers for that long without changing them.

[Racez]

It's not normal.

He should wash it once in a while.

[Anonymous]

K these guys are hating on your boyfriend, don't listen to them.

He should be able to wear them for about 2 days. Just tell him 2 days and change them. After that, for sure they get smelly.

[Anonymous]

No, it's fucking gross.

[Abdulwahh]

I think that is very disgusting

[jb12358]

Abnormal