No good-night kiss after date... Does that mean he isn't interested in going out again?

[Anonymous]

This really great guy took me on a wonderful second date where he really went out of his way and took me somewhere really really nice and ordered us a bottel of wine and desert and we talked for 3 hours (theres never even a moment of awkward silence). We were both pretty sleepy from the long week and he even had a coffee and almost asked the waiter for a redbull to try to keep himself from yawning ha... when we decided to leave he waited with me until I got a taxi (his idea) and opened the door for me which was so gentalman like of him, but instead of giving me a kiss goodnight, he gave me a hug and didn't exactly mention future plans... on the first date he went for a kiss (I wasn't expecting it and it wasn't perfect)... Was he probably not interested in another date? or Was he just really tired and didn't want to get started kissing because he would want more and he was being polite? He told me that he had fun but I don't know I'm use to guys either being nice or are immature.. I think he and I both are looking to find something more than just physical so I don't really know how to interpret this

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I feel like I've lost his attention.. he turned down a suggested plan for the weekend and He hasn't responded to my last text... should I text him in a few days saying "I really wanted to kiss you on our date.. The attraction was definitely there for me, I was just being shy." It's the truth I really wanted the kiss.. With that improve things or make them worse?

[rusty19]

Well if the first kiss was a little awkward and there was a taxi there waiting for you to hop in, then maybe he thought the kiss might be rushed or awkard again and he wanted to save himself from looking like a fool?

by the sounds of it he is into you and seems like a nice guy, don't read too much into it and perhaps drop a hint to him in a text that he owes you a kiss from the other night (do it in a playful manner)... Or you could take the initiative next time and just kiss him first, don't over complicate things and just have fun

[Racez]

It must be that you didn't reciprocate his first kiss with passion before.

Though, you shouldn't try to over analyze things. He's still interested in you. Simply initiate the kiss next time.

[Anonymous]

I think you're fine.

One guy didn't kiss me until the third date. Another waited until our fifth date. People move at different speeds when it comes to relationships.

It just sounds like he was really tired. If you don't hear from him for a week or something, THEN I'd say he is losing interest. But no kiss on a second date doesn't necessarily mean he's lost interest.

Good luck :-)

[Anonymous]

not sure. it could go either way. see if he calls you tomorrow. if you don't hear from him in a day or two you will know.

[Anonymous]

he probably didn't want a sexual harassment suit

[Asker]

A good night kiss after a perfect second date? I don't think any judge would prosecute him for that lol

[Opinion Owner]

Didn't bother reading your text - way too long. Just went with the caption; still stand by my words. You girls are wayyy too hard to read, so we have to use caution - well, at least I do; and I especially don't go for a kiss, especially in one of the first dates if the vibe isn't right