Boyfriend has naked pictures of girls he knows on his phone

[Anonymous]

Okay so I have been with my boyfriend for three years. I love him very much and I planned on spending the rest of my life with him but we were in my parents room looking for sonething and came across an album that had naked pictures of my mom and dad when they were younger (another story and ew) well I immediately shut the album because I was grossed out. The next day my boyfriend offered to clean my room while I was at work and I told him to not look in the album again and he got defensive saying that I'm stupid for assuming he wanted to. A couple days later I was looking through his pictures on his phone and see one of a boob. Well, I found a lot, and they were of my mom naked from that album. I started crying and asked him why. He lied saying he didn't know how they got there and getting mean to me and cursing at me. Well he eventually said he did it because he knew he could get away with it but didn't look at then once they were taken. So I have had my guard up because I do love him very much. Well just recently I was looking for a picture of my nephew on his phone and came across pictures of girls from Facebook. Half naked ones. He lied about it. Saying they came up accidentally. What should I think of this? Is he cheating?

[stubbsy]

Hes playing you to be a fool, and he has intentions on cheating if not already, and to have those pics of your mum and dad, well he wanted these to show to people, and take the piss out of you and your parents. I don't think you know this guy as well as you think, because this guy has intentions to hurt people, he's not a very nice person, and to have naked pics of girls while he already has a girlfriend, well that's betrayal for you, so you should rethink this so called relationship, because you may be into it, be he certainly isn't in it for the right reasons, he will end up hurting you,x

[DeepBlue]

Cheating or not, this guy is a first class douche bag and you should leave his ass ASAP.

[alexxu]

If I was trying to settle with him I'd change my mind rapidly. If he can't tell you the truth now, do you really think he will get better as he gets older and begins to take you for granted? Do you want to spent your whole life feeling you can't trust him? Get out of this tangle quickly and find an honest bloke. Yes I know it's hard, he'll rabbit on about what a tiny thing etc. But it's not tiny - what he does when he's suddenly confronted shows what's deep inside him.

[Anonymous]

I don't know if he's cheating, but it definitely a possibility. This is very creepy though. The creepy factor would bother me more than the possibility of his cheating, haha!

[why-makoto-kun]

He's a creep, he's pervy, and he's a liar who is verbally/emotionally abusive (lying and cursing at you). Dump him! He's so gross!

[why-makoto-kun]

I mean, your mom!? Good goodness! Who does that!?

[why-makoto-kun]

Like if that happened to me, I'd be so grossed out. I just can't even. Like ew.

[Asker]

Yeah I threw up. I was completely disguised. I am still grossed out. And I think I am going to dump him. He tried to justify himself and I believed him but you would think he would learn and try his hardest to do anything to prove to me that he is worthy

[why-makoto-kun]

I would have too! Omg. I would do it ASAP and probably rip him a new one too, because he'd lose all my respect. How dare he!

[frenchy21]

has he deleted the photos of your mother form his phone and has he downloaded them to his pc ,i would find out all that first before you dump him as you don't want photos of your mother going around the net or the collage , I don't think he is cheating , but he is a snake , the other photos from Facebook I don't know as I don't know much about face book and did not know people can download pics from here , but lots of young guys keep p*rn hidden somewhere

[Premonition]

Why the Hell are you dating that Jack-ass?Its pretty obvious he doesn't respect you or respect any of your feelings.

[Racez]

It seems that he's just taking those pictures so he can get himself off while you're away.

And also, it might be a sign that he's cheating.

[Anonymous]

You're being played like a fiddle

[Anonymous]

Strange