How to be persistent to a girl playing hard to get?

[p8ntboy]

what are some things a guy can do to be persistent? nad what does it mean?

[wanderer83]

Well, if she says she isn't interested you play it cool and do not get emotional. Be aloof and casual about the situation as if it doesn't bother you that she doesn't like you that way.

If in any way she tells you that you are putting pressure on her, you say, "You know? You are right. I apologize.

If you hang out with her and thought it was a date or that you were dating but it wasn't really defined and she introduces to her fmily and friends as her friend, you say later, "you know? I think I wouldn't mind that we are friends."

Girls love seeing a guy riled up. they may not admit it and never will but if you act too emotional and get all mad about, they will use it to there advantage to feel like they have the upper hand.

If a girl plays games, you gotta be one step ahead psychologically without her realizing. Just stay confident, don't ever be whiney, stay positive in your conversations about your life and let her do all the venting of things that suck in life.

That's my theory. Of course I may be way off because I'm no woman. I just have come to this point of realization that seems to work when I am at my most confident stages with the opposite sex.

[Racez]

Simply be there for her.

Spend a lot of time with her. Talk to her a lot.

Call her, and always flirt with her.

[dodgypirate]

I would do exactly the opposite of that in fact. Girls who play hard to get crave the attention. What you need to do is ignore them in anyway possible. Make yourself look busy with your life.

If she truly likes you after a while she will contact you and wonder why you've not spoken to her lately. If she wasn't interested in the first place she won't contact you, and you can simply move along to the next girl, a girl who won't play these mind games on you preferably.

[bluejay511]

You can do simple things. Like if she gave you her number text her. Only three or four times a week. Any more than that will make you seem desperate. You can start conversations with her when you see her in the streets or in class. Tell her she looks nice, not every time you see her. And if you do have a conversation with her, listen. Remember it for the next conversation. If you can prove to a girl you listen to her, she begins to trust and begin to fall for you. But the most important thing is that you have to show a sense of confidence around her and around her friends. if you want to call her, call her no more than 2 times a week unless you end up staying on the phone with her for longer than an hour. That means she enjoys your conversation but if you do that awkward 'we don't say anything the whole time' you may not want to call her again. Good Luck and no matter what keep smiling. ^_^ Girls love a genuine smile.

[PhoenixPrincess]

Here's the thing about hard-to-get. Chances are, most especially with women, that if you are getting cool/avoidant readings, she's not actually interested in you, and you aren't pursuing her, you are bothering her. Women are conditioned by the culture to be more accommodating and less direct, so she may be worried about being rude, or confrontational, so she's trying to communicate non-verbally. Don't persist, cease and desist!

Now, if she is into you and playing hard to get, she is not ready for a healthy adult relationship. You are way better off not playing that game. It's a recipe for misery. Either way, she's just not that into you. Be respectful of her and yourself and leave her alone. Go find a girl who responds to you with enthusiasm! I hope this helps.

[wanderer83]

That is very good advice for me. Thanks!

[kia58]

It means to jump trough every hoop she sets up and come out of there smiling, without putting your ego on the line.

If she ignores your calls, you call again. If she pretends not to care, you ignore it. If she lies about having plans, you reschedule. All this time going after her with absolute confidence she is as good as yours and that she is pretending.

Be careful not to confuse her for an uninterested girl. You'll get stomped on. Unlike the players who handle this very easily to get what they want, because there is not pride on the line, if you like her, you might be hurt.

[Deathcabforcutie]

She may not be playing hard to get. I've had a couple guys not LAY OFF no matter how much I showed disinterest. Same thing with my friend she had this guy insistently text her for like two years! She's too nice at one point I would have lost my mind at that guy

[Hasabrain]

Id like a guy to plan every move we'd make if I were to go on a date with him. He would have to just tell me his plans and id then have a serious thought which would then be yes.

[EdensFruit]

If you really like her, you don't need answers for this. You'll wait for her.

[Anonymous]

Why would you want a girl like that? If it's this exhausting this early on, what's it going to be like later? Don't you think you'll get tired of always chasing and trying so hard while she plays you?

[PerpetualNerd]

How do you know she's playing hard to get?

Sometimes a girl is just not interested.

[laragee]

Stop trying. If she's really playing hard to get then once you 'move on' she'll get jealous

[Googledoesnthp]

Try getting her a bit jealous but not too noticable

[Anonymous]

Flirting and teasing. A lot of girls, including myself, give in to flirting and cute teasing.

[TorieOrie]

... Just don't give up? Keep at it. Persevere .

[Hyped_up_on_coffee]

Girls think persistence is annoying

[Anonymous]

Keep letting her know that you like her!!!