How to not get nervous around him?

[Ilovesinging101]

So like this guy, but I get SO nervous to talk to him. I don't talk to him because I feel so insecure, I feel like while I'm talking to him there's probably something wrong with my hair, something's in my teeth , etc... just stuff like that. My friend told me that he said I'm really pretty and nice but I still feel like if I talk to him he'll think I'm ugly or something. Please help . I really want to talk to this guy , I really need some advice ): Please help meee!

[septemberbay]

hahaha this is exactly like I used to be! I liked a guy so much I was intimitated to talk to him because I felt like he would judge me. What helped for me is convincing myself I only liked him as a friend to make it easier to go up to talk to him and there would be no pressure to get him to like me. Also, if you are shy around him, make sure that right before you talk to him(this is weird but it worked for me) you are super crazy around your friends and it kind of pumps up the adrenaline so you kind of just feel more comfortable right after when you see him. Maybe start off with topics like asking him to help you with something school related and crack a few jokes.The guy that I had trouble with at first thought I was so quiet and shy but now he thinks I'm so funny and likes me a lot.:)

[AlyssaFogarty]

Haha just relax your way too paranoid. I'm like this too but what I've learned is taking a deep breath and just going for it instead of debating about it forever helps. I'm the type of person who will literally make up reasons why I can't do something and freak myself out then ill regret it later on. So go for it. Next chance you get to talk to him just walk right up don't think about anything and say hi, then just talk about whatever you want the conversation is in your hands and it can go however you let it.

[Hazel123]

The biggest turn on is confidence so be confident and be yourself.Even if you do get a little nervous some guys think its cute.Just make sure everything is in place before you're around him and try not to fix yourself every two seconds.Get comfortable, be natural, and most importantly be yourself.Try to talk about funny things or something that interests the both of you.Good luck !

[Anonymous]

Breath deeply, walk towards him, smile and ask him how his day's going.

[NYCQuestions1976]

Just go up to him and say hello and start a conversation with him.

[NYCQuestions1976]

Thanks for Most Helpful. 👍

[gypsybee]

You could try bringing friends with you.