How to stop being nervous around a guy I like?

[Anonymous]

I can't help myself when I am around him, so i just dont talk to him and try to stay far away. I have i feeling that maybe he likes me back cuz I often caught him looking at me and he always stands near me but doesn't say anything. How do i help myself?

[tremendousfern]

There is no stopping it. That's just what happens when you're around people you're attracted to. I still get nervous around pretty women. And if he likes you, he's probably just as nervous. But if he doesn't like you, it's not the end of the world either. You have to just learn to like that nervous/anxious feeling of electricity and not let it stop you from talking to people.

[dean53AU]

Unfortunately thats how humans feel in that situation, I hearts beat faster and our minds wander, it happens to a lot of people female and male

[laly520]

being around him more n building a bond could help

[riverrat3]

Just be around him more and talk

[Asker]

Talk for example about what?

[riverrat3]

Anything, do you have hobbies

[Asker]

Yes of course, i just dont want to sound stupied

[riverrat3]

Ask if he has hobbies. Ask what he watches on tv

[riverrat3]

If he plays sports ask about that

[Asker]

Yea he goes to gym and he is really passionate about it

[Asker]

Thank you

[riverrat3]

Have fun