When a guy sees you as a little sister

[Anonymous]

I don't have a crush on him or anything but I'm curious to what this means. I was talking about my problem an said if I had an older brother he could fix my problem then he replied saying that I do and it's him. What does this mean? Does this mean we have a very close friendship or do guys say that to all their girl friends? Does this mean he thinks I have a crush on him and he friend zoned me? Anything helps!

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Or does it mean he literally sees me as he woul a sister?

[blackkid2]

He's probably just offering to help fulfilling the necessary "role" in order to do so. Nothing more than an excellent friend who holds you very highly. It is not common.

[blackkid2]

To your "update" that depends on how long you've known him and the extent to which he plays a role in your life. Which you never said.

[Stark]

I agree, this depends on what the problem he's fixing actually is too..

[Stark]

Why would he think his "little sister" has a crush on him? It means he cares for you and he wants to help you overcome your problem.

[Asker]

Guys and girls say that someone to friend zone someone who they think has a crush on him/her. It's a polite way of turning them down.

[Stark]

I think he's a pretty weak guy if he's friend zoning you by comparing you to a little sister. Do you mind sharing the problem that he's helping you with?

[Asker]

Some guy has been trying to start fights with me in class. Now that my friend has graduated the guy isn't scared to mess with me like annoy, talk sh*t and he keeps trying to "bump Ito me" by slightly pushing me but he does this everyday and is wry aggressive, the guy has a history of hurting girls.

[Stark]

I think your friend is just trying to look after you then, since he's clearly done it in the past. I think we all get a little maternal over our closest friends..

[Asker]

Yes he kept threating to beat up the guy for me. Thanks a lot.

[Anonymous]

Yes, you're friend zoned.