When a girl calls you their little brother?

[Anonymous]

There's this girl that I go to college with and just recently before break, we hung out everyday a week before break started. I know she finds me attractive because she's told me herself.

There's this whole family thing going on within our floor Ex. Brothers, sisters, dads, moms, etc. This girl addressed me as her little bro but then again she still flirts with me, she would constantly hug me and held my hand twice. She also leaned in towards my neck and licked it once before in front of my entire floor. During the break, she would tell me how she loves me and misses me, also suggesting that we should hang out during the break.

This girl shows signs that she's interested in me it seems, but then she wrote on my wall for my birthday addressing me as her little brother.

Is she actually interested?

[neverhaveiever]

She likes you, but is holding herself back from showing her feelings. There's a reason why she's holding back her feelings back though.. possibly that she doesn't want a relationship or to lead you on to something serious. She's just being playful and flirty.. or she calls you little bro because she's hiding her feelings so that others don't find out. Is there another guy she could be talking to?

[Asker]

How would it work if she's trying to lead it to something serious?

I don't think she's hiding it from anyone on our floor at least ( and have almost no mutual friends) because she does it in front of everyone, however her roommate has stalked me before school started, but she calls me her brother too..

[neverhaveiever]

so they all call you their brother? what kind of weird floor do you live on. they talk about you obvi, they prob think you're cute. are you interested in her? if so maybe you can come up with something to say like "if I were to ask you out, would you stop calling me little brother" that's a way to be straightforward and catch her off guard. I only call guys "brother" if I want to friend-zone them

[Asker]

Yes I do like her

My whole floor loved me and referred to me as the cute adorable one. It's mainly her roommate that calls me her brother because we're both of the same ethnicity, and the girl I like occasionally does too.. This girl is trying to go to the gym with me everyday, and I'm also moving off the floor due to roommate issues and she's brought up the idea of her visiting me and studying together on my room..

[neverhaveiever]

O_o dude she likes you! lol she prob wants to do more than study.. maybe study human anatomy and study each others bodies har har. jk. don't make a move, be respectful! only go for it if she makes a move. but you want her to feel safe and comfortable. anyway.. the gym? aw how cute lol. you should help her with her stretches ;) lolll sorry I'm crackin too many jokes. anyway.. you should tell her you are going to the gym and ask if she's available

[Asker]

Lol but then she calls me her little brother! Doesn't make sense! Why!

All the hand holding and stuff she's taken the initiative first, and the gym thing she asked me to go wth her..

And yea that's what it sounds like haha, kinda expected such jokes xD

[neverhaveiever]

i don't get why she calls you her little brother? she's strange. and you two hold hands as well? uh you might as well go to 3rd base.. jk lol. well go to the gym with her then! play basketball or something where you two can interact more. ask her to the gym! why don't you just ask her out already? to a movie..

[Anonymous]

She wants you to be wrapped around her little finger. A close friend of mine is doing this to a guy I know because she likes having a puppy dog follow her around. She doesn't really like him but she does the same things that this girl is doing to you. She likes the attention and thinks it's funny. I'm sorry.

[Asker]

What exactly is your friend doing that's are the same?

[Opinion Owner]

Exactly what that girl is doing.

[Anonymous]

She licked your neck dude. Lol

Flirting is literally moving towards and away from the idea that you like someone in a cyclical pattern. Like a compliment and a tease. You're beautiful. You're weird. I love you. I hate you. Licking your neck. Calling you little brother. She's gaming you hard as fuck and you're so blind to it

[Anonymous]

She's definitely sending mixed signals. Since she suggested hanging out, hang out with her and flirt with her, be touchy feely with her, make eye contact and look at her body language, then you should be able to tell if she's interested in you.

[Asker]

What are some signs to look for?

[Opinion Owner]

Does she make eye contact, ask you personal questions like why don't you have a girlfriend, touching you, complimenting you.

[Asker]

Yes we make eye contact very frequently but she doesn't ask me any personal questions, she touches me all the time and constantly hugs me, and compliments me by telling me how adorable and cute I am..

[Opinion Owner]

You know she thinks you're cute, so start flirting with her man, tell her that she's pretty and sexy, and ask her personal questions, then she'll know you are interested. Doing nothing sometimes proves nothing.

[Anonymous]

did she choose to call you brother or was it a name given to you by say the group?

[Asker]

Her roommate was the person who started calling me that first

[Opinion Owner]

i can't say for sure but that does make some differences as she could be going along with the joke, its if she actually considers you a brother is the part that matters here

[Asker]

Yes, that is what I'm trying to figure out.. If you call me that, why would you act like I'm not by flirting with me and such.. Also before she posted her comment, her roommate commented first referring to be as her brother before she came and made a post..

[Opinion Owner]

damn this is a toughy... I'm sure you too have had girls your just friends with flirt a bit. I think there is a limit in how far it goes though.

can you compare her behavior with you to say other guys on your floor? have you ever seen her with another guy and gotten jealous? if so your reacting to her doing the same thing she does to you with other guys. being treated different then the others would be good news then, talking large difference though because level of comfort comes in a bit.

[Rayz321]

She is defiantly interested. No girl would lick you that isn't.