Should I sit by him in class?

[SparksFly29]

I met this guy in one of my classes. He asked for my number on the second day of class and we've been texting frequently. We've both established that we like each other. Should I sit by him in class? I don't know if it would be weird or not.

Thanks

[kholland65]

I'd say yes, this usually has a big effect on guys. Sitting next to a guy is like him sending you a text. Guys bond and find intimacy through physical touch and closeness. Not that I'm suggesting you have some super deep intimate connection with this guy you just met. I'm just saying that subconsciously it will help to make him more attracted to you and it will definitely make him think you like him, which is a good thing, if you want him to keep pursuing. If you sit far away fro him, it sort of gives mixed signals, because people who are much less friendly to each other would normally sit next to each other every day. He's be more weirded out if you didn't sit next to him.

[SparksFly29]

This is very helpful, thanks!

[stubbsy]

It would be a great thing to do, but be sure to ask if its OK if you sit there first, don't assume he will be OK with it, its just polite to never assume,x

[SparksFly29]

Good point, thanks!

[AlexxAtTheDisco]

Just think what you would want.

If you guys already established that you like each other,wouldn't you want him to sit by you?

[SparksFly29]

Good point, thanks!

[mukheef]

It's not wierd. Sit next to him in class, but don't be all over him. Guys like to hunt, not be served. Sitting next to him would give him the hint that you might be interested.

[SparksFly29]

You make a good point, thanks!

[ricke92m3]

Don't sit with him and see if he moves to sit next to you. This is what I call the p**** test, if he is to scared to go after what he wants you don't want him anyway.

[SparksFly29]

Good idea; thanks!

[Anonymous]

Do it. If there's a free space and you're not already sitting by someone important, then by all means you should. It's only awkward if you make it awkward.

[SparksFly29]

That's what I always say ha ha "It's only awkward if you make it awkward"

Thanks!

[doctorwhofan23]

If a girl liked me I'd want to sit with her. I say you should do it without a doubt. Just make sure not to talk in class.

[SparksFly29]

Thanks!

[mattygfromtheMD32]

No, of course it wouldn't be weird. He'd probably appreciate it!

[SparksFly29]

Thanks!

[btikss]

Sit by him in the class..