Is it weird that my boyfriend doesn't want to sit by me in class?

[Anonymous]

We are in grad school.

[AuthenticAnon]

I think he is thinking about his education first, over your relationship. This isn't a bad thing because in the long run he is probably thinking about doing well in grad school to get a great job to provide for you. A guy's brain is wired to be the breadwinner of the household even the modern society is changing to the point that it's not that way. So it's not weird that he doesn't want to sit next to you in class, and even if he wants to do homework alone. What will be weird is if he starts doing this on social occasions, like sitting away from you in group hangouts.

[zubin]

well not exactly weird maybe he just needs to spend some time with his friends. if it's just during class it's not to worry. but if you think he's avoiding you just ask. Asking a person is the best way to avoid misunderstandings. In a relationship that's what is most important. 😊

[TechnoGirl]

Not at all. Your boyfriend has his own life and friends that he wants to spend time with. If he spends everytime and hour with you, doesn't it seem kinda clingy to you?
You shouldn't worry about these things, whether he sits next to a different girl or a guy in class. He chose you, your his girlfriend. He's going to come to you at the end of the day.
So dont worry about it.

[ovogaby]

There could be many reasons. It's best that you ask him. When my man and I was in the same class we sat with our own friends. However, he walk with me to all my classes and we ate lunch together. Our reason was personal space.

[Oldsoulswiccangirl]

Well there are a few things it could be

His education matters to him

He's afraid he can't keep his hands to himself

or simply doesn't want his friends thinking a female runs his life

[zorro8888]

Well I'd hate to be distracted for an entire class when I'm focusing on my degree.
It might work for you but everyone has a different way of learning.

Let it go.

[Edymemelord]

Maybe you distract him and he wants to focus?
is he sitting next to a girl?
is he sitting next to a guy?
Do you sit in the front or in the back?

[Prochto]

Depends on his reason. Maybe he thinks that his friends will get angry at him because he doesn't sit with them , you know in shcools there are friend groups and these are more important for guys

[Sara413]

Maybe he's worried that you will distract each other.

I'd ask him about it.

[xCutesyLolitax]

VERY VERY WEIRD. He might either be embarrassed to be with you OR maybe you're so talkative and might distract him from paying attention

[MysteriousChallenger]

Maybe he doesn't like being seen as someone who needs to be around his Girlfriend every minute

[John_Doesnt]

It's not weird because he knows you'll get him in trouble by talking during class.

[Twiggles]

in my opinion it's not weird. Girlfriends are distracting

[waffle_man]

It's now weird necessary, it could be because he doesn't want to be distracted in class or that he wants to sit with his friends, if you're worried you should just ask him

[Heemus_Christ]

you could be distracting. and next to you he probably thinks about your back arching

[lucky1234567]

I think he doesn't want anyone else to know about it.

[Anonymous]

yeah it is weird , it looks like he doesn't want others to know about ur relationship

[scooogy]

How long have you been together so far?

[Asker]

Almost 3 months.

[scooogy]

how did he act towards you in public so far?

[Anonymous]

No. You are a distraction. lol

[YaBaba]

Very weird.

[iking]

very weird