Why do people feel so comfortable around me?

[Anonymous]

Whenever people are around even if they don't know me they always talk about their problems with me. Men are comfortable with me not only talking to me about their problems but also sexually. Women tell me all their problems. I'm not sure why but where ever I go people just pour out their guts to me I have no Idea why.

[Alquila]

Some people are just very naturally counselor-like (less formal, more easy-going) than actual counselors. I have a friend just like that who a lot of people tell their problems to. People feel like they can trust you, you will listen, and they feel comfortable around you. That's a really good thing, but if it gets to be too much, write. Or talk to someone else who won't go telling about everyone's issues. Good for you, I've always rather envied my friend for being like that, you're lucky.