Why do guys feel so comfortable around me so quickly?

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whenever i Meet a guy whether im interested in them or not they always get too comfy w. me & in result of that makes me uncomfortable. For example a guy would talk to me & we strike up a convo now they feel comfortable enough to ask for my number which makes me feel uncomfortable. Or some guys will too comfortable with me by touching me , grabbing me , & giving me hugs each time they see me & im not really the affectionate type , especially if i. dont know u & im not that comfortable with u. It sumtimes upsets me because i feel like there crossing boundaries one , & i feel like u give a guy a inch & they take a mile. It really bothers me cuz i dont like people touching me , especially guys i. dont find attractive or are interested in any type of way.

AnonKuma · Accepted Answer

You are prob unintentionally doing something that is causing them to misunderstand the situation/circumstances between the both of you that is causing them to b so "comfortable" around you. This may sound unfair, but if you change your behavior (whereas you may ask why should u change since it's their problem and not urs) then maybe they wouldn't feel as comfortable as they would feel or you could lowkey avoid there approaches by having a girl friend near u which could give u a reason to somehow redirect the atmosphere somewhere else

rwlock · Accepted Answer

Haha well I'm usually pretty aggressive when it comes to approaching girls so I tend to get physical pretty quickly. But I'm not stupid, and if I can tell she's uncomfortable then I'll back off.

So either you're sending mixed signals, or the guys don't know how to take a hint.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

You probably have a "vibe" that makes them feel comfortable around you. It's usually a positive thing.

Mesonfielde · Answer

Because you wrote an entire paragraph about all the things that make you uncomfortable around them, and they can see that.

tyber1 · Answer

Ok look, I get you not liking the touchy stuff but you're seriously going to get upset that guys ask you out? Women expect us to make the first move. Most women are too cowardly to do it on their own so it's their only means of getting with a woman. Guys will not know about your preference and they won't care frankly, its women who insist on things being this way so don't blame us.

Pyrofox · Answer

maybe because your so open to them that they feel like they can take advantage of you.  Me personally I leave the making a move stuff to the female gender.

jc1982 · Answer

we dont know you and can't answer that. Your fuck off sign is too subtle. Some boys think if they can get you to talk with them they can get you to sleep with them. but dont be uncomfortable just be more of a bitch maybe they will all back off.

Dat_Kid · Answer

If you're respectful, friendly and open, you'll get along with a lot of people Don't be too open though.

Anonymous · Answer

you just probably have that "thing" about you. why question it?

Splintercell · Answer

When they go for a hug give them a hand shake.

Walls_and_Doors · Answer

You seem human enough.

Why do guys feel so comfortable around me so quickly?

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