Polls

So, i sorta inherited a 12 year old Cadillac. It did recently pass inspection. It's sweet. But does need things. Shocks or struts which are expensive. Luxury cars have expensive parts. My father was driving it and he recently passed away. He had taked about a $100 a month extended warranty or something that would cover everything. But we never got that info from him. And when he first passed away, my mother said it would be nice to still see it.

I have a small suv which I've been leasing and was thinking about buying. It's 3 years old.

The cadillac has all wheel drive and long. My little suv doesn't have all wheel drive.

I really like my little suv. I've leased a number of vechicles, and it's one I really wanted years before I got it.

Torn, and the clock is ticking.

I feel like in my neighborhood, nobody is outside even if it's a beautiful day...

When you fancy popping some popcorn in your gob, you need to pop some popcorn first. So let poppy pop the question, how do you pop your popcorn?

I think it's necessary because when men reject women, the woman begins to argue, berate him, and debate. The man is better off just ghosting to avoid the headache, lol. Even me as a woman, if I decline to share my personal information with an intrusive unmarried plus size lady coworker, she wants to debate me over not sharing my personal life. But if I ask her how much she weighs, she would go to the restroom and cry, lol. Make it make sense 🤣🥴

Keyword=harder

I say women here's why..


1. Under every post or woman poster here, they are always angry, saying men are the problem x, y, and z. At what point will most women assume accountability? Lack of accountability is a narcissistic trait.

2. Another typical post is the stalking and harrassing men who aren't interested in you at work and on social media, yet if a man does it, he's "psycho." Lack of boundaries is a narcissistic trait.

3 . The post " I had sex with him after first meeting him and sent a stranger my nudes on dating app" hoping he will like you is manipulative, which is another trait of narcissistic.

4. If a man doesn't like you and you start bad mouthing him not telling how you contributed to an issue screams smear campaign which is another narcissistic trait.

5. When someone doesn't angry with you , you go into rage. That's a control issue which is a narc trait.

6. Bullying, stalking, harrassing and down talking women that looks better than you is envy. Ex. " did he settle for her?" No he didn't he chose the woman he wanted. Envy is another narc trait.

Or you prefer a floral print? Or something else?

These are both awful scenarios but before answering which is worse really take time to analyze because for me initially I chose one to be worse and I thought of it more and more I realized that for me the other situation was worse than the one I initially felt was the worse one so I’m curious what others conclude between these two awful situations

1st scenario

your partner cheated and when it all came to light he confessed and repented and explained it happened because I felt unloved and lonely (you’ve been rejecting your partner for years now depriving your partner of sex) not a reason to cheat, there never is but it is what lead to the present situation and wants to make it work and learn to communicate

the right thing to do there was to communicate and reach an agreement but humans make mistakes and that’s what happened and realized it only after the fact & trying to make things work to mend the broken relationship.

2nd scenario

you find out your partner has been sending videos of you both having sex where you’re full exposed and naked with people that you see regularly and the people watching it are other married people but their partner also doesn’t know that their partner is watching that stuff.
Doesn’t want the relationship to end and has apologized

Which of these is worse and which is less hurtful and which one is more likely to end in the relationship actually overcoming the awful situation?

I notice that the girl with animal print (zebra, tiger, panther) dress makes her entry, guys collectively emit a sigh and I can immediately notice a change in the trousers of many men. But when the girl wears leopard skin print, the effect is most visible. Have others observed this as well?

Recently a guy that I was more than friendly with told me that he thought I was hot and enjoyed being friends but he couldn’t fully trust me. We weren’t talking much at that point, maybe once or twice a week mostly on weekends.

Since then I backed off a bit and I’ve noticed that he seems to be texting me more. Like 2-3x every day even during the workday when he used to never text me. Does it seem like he might be changing his mind?

Would you text a girl you were just friends with this often?:

I made bracelets for the mums at the office for mother's day (as a gift). Should I send a picture of the bracelets to my crush and ask him if he wants one too, for his girlfriend, as a gift, for free... see what he says?
Please, I want opinions. Especially from guys.