Polls

And you never consider you’re aging as well, but mostly always criticize the aging woman?

I always notice aged men idolizing younger looking women and criticizing older looking women when they themselves look bad and unattractive.

I suppose they stick to the notion that older men are more attractive but it’s not actually so common. It’s only CERTAIN men who actually age better, they’re usually very fit with good hair even if white hairs but good hair and be very masculine and strong jawlines,

it’s not actually common,

we can mostly find these types online search engines but when we walk around in real life most men are unfit, balding and not such attractive faces anymore

And that’s not to bash on men at all, I’m not. Please don’t feel offended if you’re an older man.

what im getting at is saying why these men have the audacity to view aging women as undesirable when they themselves are less than desirable? lol why?

my question and are you one of those?

my uncle for example is one of those. He’s old skinny and short. His face is falling and has thinning hair, with a round belly, all weirdo combination. I can’t stand it when he starts to criticize older women who don’t look young anymore and he’s looking just as awful. Like what 👹🥴? do you have a mirror? 🪞I can’t even say it cause it would sound so rude and probably damage his ego lol what do these men see? Seriously

I actually loath biscuits and gravy. I thought you could acquire the taste if you tried it again and again, to know that its not my cuppa. Anyone here who really likes it?

I’ve had enough of this guy, I’m so fed up with the way that he’s treated me. We were more than friends then he friendzoned me because I found out he lied about his identity but then started calling me pet names and flirting but then pulling back if I engage at all. I want to say this to him:

“Hey so this has been feeling forced as fuck to me since about September when you double sent that towel selfie to me. I may act dumb, but I see you and I know this isn’t just about me knowing who you are.

It’s become obvious to me that our definitions of friendship don’t align and I’m tired of the confusing behavior. I’ll be spending my time on people who are authentic and don’t expect me to read minds or pretend I don’t know their name from now on.

Take care!”

Is this too much? Any feedback is appreciated!

Essentially love is what stimulates our mind and desires, while sex stimulates our sexual organs.

Agree or disagree?

Many people try to figure out what love is and all about but technically it’s going to be someone we find attractive and stimulates our minds whenever we talk to them and/or do things with them. They stimulate* us- more so than anyone else would. If we do a hobby with them or take a trip with them, we may find it more rewarding and engaging* when we experience it with them. They enhance the overall experience. Then the plus is that they’re attractive and the sex is fun and engaging with them as well. Liking them is what makes the sex better.

So love is somewhat and nothing short of: shared experiences with the person who stimulates us mentally more than any other person, and arouses us simultaneously.

Thoughts?

Do a Guy and a Gal have to *enjoy* talking to each other for love to even be considered/possible?

I know there’s people who talk to each other but know how to keep a conversation going. It made me wonder about couples who talk and seem to get along well but don’t seem to really be into each other.

I feel like if one or neither of them actually enjoy the exchanges in conversation, then it won’t be possible for them to love each other and saying that they do would be somewhat of a joke.

Thoughts?

Like for example if the guy is tall around 6'2, attractive face (but nothing out of ordinary either) with acne scar on face (especially darker scar on cheeks rather big) random hair (not fashionable haircut just very basic short hair one), skinny and work a minimum wage job (blue collar).

Would a guy like him be considered as average or above average?

Even if it was just a “friendly chat”?

Personally I don’t ever respond to any DMs from unknown people of the opposite gender. I don’t see it as cheating but I see it as unnecessary as it could open up doors to unwanted drama.

How often do you stay up late? 🌙 ⏰