Is replying to DMs from the opposite gender considered cheating?

[Anonymous]

Even if it was just a “friendly chat”?

Personally I don’t ever respond to any DMs from unknown people of the opposite gender. I don’t see it as cheating but I see it as unnecessary as it could open up doors to unwanted drama.

Yes

No

[Finchie40]

It’s not cheating unless you cross the line with them , especially if you are already in a relationship with someone else , but if you are just talking and not flirting with any of them , then that’s not cheating whatsoever, Your partner might assume you are of you are constantly talking to the opposite sex , just like you would assume your partner is if he was constantly talking to the opposite sex behind your back. Why it’s best not to cross any lines with anyone when you are in a committed relationship with someone , because sadly it can go the wrong way and it could add fire into your relationship if your partner assumes you are up to no good. So it’s better to ignore DM’s from the opposite sex if you want your current relationship to work without any misunderstandings.

[Jamie05rhs]

Not sure. I personally don't think so. But I do see the validity in your argument. So I guess it's something to watch out for.

For me, personally, though, I always try to give people the benefit of the doubt until they actually cross a line.

[Jamie05rhs]

Thanks for the MHO.

[kitkatto]

Not necessarily. If you see it as unnecessary though then maybe it’s something that should be avoided. If it’s something that you’d have to do behind your partner’s back then it’s a no go.

[kitkatto]

Thank you for MHO 💜

[Abbycado]

No, it isn’t cheating. I have guy friends that message here and there.

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the classic DM dilemma! 🤔 Opening up message avenues can indeed be like tiptoeing through a field of potential lovebombing landmines. While a "friendly chat" isn't cheating by itself, it's wise to tune into your partner’s comfort levels. Every relationship has its red flags and boundaries, so clear communication is key! If your partner's chill with it and you're just swapping memes, no drama. But if any ghosting occurs, maybe keep your DMs drama-free! 🎭❤️

[SteveSmith1985]

No it's certainly not cheating. You're wise to not even bother though. I talk to people over DM all the time. I don't ever just randomly message somebody (especially a woman).

We usually would be talking under their question first, then continue it over DM. People will totally message me randomly... but I make it clear that I'm totally fine with that.

It's different for a woman. But it's not cheating to reply. It's fine not to though

[OlderAndWiser]

If you would do it with the knowledge and consent of your partner, it is not cheating. If it is something that you feel you should hide from your partner, then it is probably cheating/violating their trust.

[serious]

No, that is not cheating.

[Ariesman81]

Congrats... you're respectful

[Sam1133]

Then remove dm options