Would you be upset if your partner got a lot of messages on their social media from the opposite gender?

[itsannalee]

Would you be upset if your partner got a lot of messages on their social media from the opposite gender, but they didn't reply to them?

[sawno]

No, thats not something she has any control over or something i'd have to fear. I'd be more uncomfortable if she is constantly posting single guy bait on there though like very seductive bikini pics. I don't find that appropriate in a relationship. But assuming she's not that type of girl (Since I don't go after those girls) and its regular pics of herself I don't mind the amount of attention she gets, I know she'd be with me.

[MicahRaine]

No.

If she's not replying then she's not the problem. There are plenty of creeps who will message random girls of social media. Raine used to get plenty of those messages even when she didn't have a single picture posted.

[Sunnysunny123]

Yes especially older men, i remember a few years ago my friend posted a photo of her on the beach (no pose and also not provocative) also there was not that much to see since she was 17, she got dick pics from older men and not even a single message from a younger guy. My accounts are all private, always have been but i still get messages from random older men.

[MicahRaine]

@Sunnysunny123 Yep, same with Raine. No pictures, but 16yo female so old guys started creeping.

[itsannalee]

@Sunnysunny123 i got dick pic few years ago. And my friend replied it
“What it is? I don’t understand why u sent me this. I’m just 13yo”. And also he (my friend) took screenshot of all the conversation and sent it to all the old’s man friend list.

[AI Opinion]

Navigating the choppy waters of social media in relationships, aren't we? 😉 Let's sprinkle some love dust on this, shall we? If your partner's inbox is more crowded than a Black Friday sale but they're not engaging, it's a sign they're dedicated to you. 🌟 Trust is hotter than California in July, and it seems your partner is serving loyalty on a silver platter. Not replying is like saying, “Thanks, but I've got the hottest ticket in town already.” 🎟️🔥 Celebrate that dedication; it’s a clear sign they're all in for you. Love is about trust, not the unread messages in the inbox. Keep the focus on your connection; it's the real MVP here. 💑💖

[ohsheeT]

I mean I would be curious on why that's just like if it was happening to me if I was getting a lot of messages I would think that she would be curious... I also think when you're in a relationship I mean there's no reason to really be on social media... I'm single and I get bored so I get on social media because I want to flirt I want to play I want to do all kinds of things LOL but if I was in a relationship I wouldn't be on social media

[itsannalee]

Even ur profile say that is influecer, so know why people are on social media.

[ohsheeT]

I don't know what that means but okay.. . I've had many titles on my... Pages here I've been here for probably 10 11 years but I get locked out of my page and I can't get back into it so I have to make another account I've been guru Master I've been a bunch of different things I don't even know what that means LOL

[DishLady]

It depends who these people are — folks who I know to be above board and chatting up their friend aren’t a big deal. Folks who are “fishing” to distract a guy and see how “available” and committed he is are odd.

[Finchie40]

Not upset but maybe concerned as to why they were getting bombarded by the opposite sex and what their intentions were

[Anonymous]

My generation doesn't my like social media. Only people I know who use it are younger than me. My people actually talk to each other. And frequently look each other in the eye while doing so.
The only way I would know is if I was snooping. People who trust each other feel comfy enough to share things. Even fake people and fake attention which my friends snd family find funny so would share anyway.

[Account]

If they didn't reply to them I wouldn't give a fuck.
... If they did... well.
Umm.
They would no longer be with me.

[Account]

Technically it is a win win 🤣🤗

[FarmBoy13]

If they aren’t replying to them you should be happy. That is the ultimate sign that they are committed to you. Maybe a little upset at the people sending them depending on the context. But in the end your partner deserves bonus points

[getpucksin]

Everyone gets jealous, but as long as they are not replying it is not a real issue. That said, if they started interacting with all of the questions I'd start to ask why my attention was not enough

[Kabluie]

No big deal to me, their socials is their private business.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't get upset if he's not replying, they're getting ignored anyway

[DrPepper12]

Not at all. It's very complimentary to her and me for choosing her

[lorenzomichael]

No not really because I’m comfortable in my relationship. I trust her to the fullest, but I would like to know what is she texting. That’s not trusting her that’s just wanting to know there’s a difference.

[Nikki1989]

He would need to have social media first.

[Ms_Facesitter]

No I actually feel great when it happens. Yes... crave him, it's all you can do. He is Mine. 😈

[exitseven]

Yes, if most of them were old boyfriends or guys she had sex with.

[dragoblack]

No, because I would trust her and i know there are always a bunch of creepy guys hitting women's dms up even if she is married or not.

[Wise4myage]

I think that would depend on the content of the messages.

[LiamJHayden]

This is the extent of my social media, so I likely would not know.

[Anonymous]

Yeah. It suggests she's doing attention seeking behavior, it's a HUGE red flag. Strong indication of cheating.

[alice55]

i would just leave them

[Anonymous]

*Opposite sex, not gender.

[itsannalee]

Don’t tell me what i should use. If u like that word. Just make your own question😉

[justabuddy]

Depends on how she was handling it.

[Yannae]

No, kind of flattered actually. She ignores them.

[jahaims]

The profile can be kept private

[msc545]

No. There would be no reason to care about this.

[NotSlowestSloth]

She won't be on social media

[Jennz6]

Nope

[smurfwrangler]

a bit. it might inflate their ego

[NathanDavis]

nope

[clampfan101]

Why would I?

[dudeinohio]

Absolutely

[eagle1951]

maybe