How would you feel if your partner only follows opposite gender on social media?

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My boyfriend only follows 300 girls on instagram.

sejla · Accepted Answer

If he knew them all it would be a problem if they were just social contacts. If they were social media people, trainers, etc. I would kind and watch and see where it would going. You have to go more by daily behavior. Does he respect you, treat you well, how much time does he a lot to these interactions like posting public messages, etc?

If you went to my social media I'd say like 80% of the people I follow are male Korean singers and actors under the age of 40 with a few older men thrown in. I'm not following men that I know except a friend who is the husband of my friend. On any sites besides facebook I don't follow people I know. Instagram, Tik Tok, etc is just for fun.

wynn-ing · Accepted Answer

Not even ONE guy? That is definitely weird.
But I'm not sure if it'd be suspicious. He probably just likes having girls on his feed... you should ask him about it without being defensive. See what he says.

I don't know how common this is among men however. But like ALL women! I'm intrigued what he's trying to get out of following 300 girls.

DiscomfortZone · Accepted Answer

Your boyfriend likes to:
1. Keep his options open for when he decides to dump you.
2. Masturbate to sluts' pictures online.
And 3. Imagine his instagram sluts when sleeping with you.

It makes zero difference if you believe me or not, you will when you catch him cheating on you, or when he dumps you for an insta-bitch.

GrunchyMonkee · Accepted Answer

If he's not sending receiving solicit or suggestive messages, comments, or pics then no harm no foul. I'm a sketch artist I'm always looking at women on social media to get character design ideas and perspective.

ElissaDido · Answer

I'd find it super weird and irritating.  The guy I like barely followed any girl, only a few ones from his uni and HS and stuff, he had a "clean" insta feed. And this is how it should be 😍

aWes0MeNeSs · Answer

I would think he liked to "window shop".

brandy666187 · Answer

Definitely something to keep your eye on. He’s either already Cheating or looking to cheat but at the same time it could just be completely harmless and maybe makes him feel better to talk to other girls as long as that’s as far as it goes but it depends on what type of conversations if any that he has with these 300+ women

maadison · Answer

I guess I'd have to experience that myself in order to have an answer. As for right now I'm saying it wouldn't bother me but who knows where my head would be at if I were to be in love with someone else and that happened.

mermaidia_lol · Answer

My ex did that and it made me feel uncomfortable, especially seeing the pictures he "liked"

ClosetHoe · Answer

I'd expect most men to follow mostly women on social media so I'd be understanding.

GhiraGhira · Answer

If she gets many hours on their phone every day, this get suspicion

Lance1965 · Answer

If it was all just the opposite gender it would suggest she is trying to keep her options open as much as possible.

Carbon-12 · Answer

I honestly don't think I would notice. I'd probably tease him lightly about it if I did notice.

poneglyphs · Answer

I guess weird because I don't talk to a lot of people.

Anonymous · Answer

I mean, he is a guy, why would he follow men? lol unless that would be celebrities.

OddBeMe · Answer

I think browsing is fine. There will be other evidence if he’s cheating.

CuriousMufuxka · Answer

Are you monitoring his phone? Online activities? You need to take a break.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Celebrities? I won't mind, but common dudes only will make me a bit suspicious.

pizzatravellerx · Answer

I’d honestly wouldn’t be so happy about it.. I’d talk to him otherwise leave him if he’d start being weird

KittyMilk · Answer

I do the same for eye candy, I'm not following no random man

JP_Man · Answer

I don't see a problem. Honestly it's not really your buisness to be honest.

Slim57 · Answer

All Instagram really is for is too look at pictures so it's whatever

HawKHounD · Answer

So? They maybe his friends, relatives or people he wants to follow.

HannahBallector · Answer

I wouldn't freak out but it'd definitley be a bit weird

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