Girls and guys does it bother you or do you consider it disrespectful if your partner follows the opposite gender or like their posts on social media?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

It’s disrespectful. Because he should be loving me and only me. Its good to feel jealousy. Because it shows that you care what they think of you and how they perceive you.
It shows you are passionate and have serious feelings for him.
If you feel NOTHING about him having exes, and him having female friends, and him following other females. You probably don’t care, you probably are not as invested or in love.

Wheb they advise you to NOT SHOW JEALOUSY, and NOT BE JEALOUS, and be CONFIDENT. That’s all somewhat good. But not always, if you present Jealousy here and there it shows you care, it shows you are interested.

IF YOU SHOW NO JEALOUSY WHATSOEVER. It tells them you are not interested at all!

PinkMichae · Accepted Answer

Not one bit. Relationships have enough real problems than worrying about my man liking or commenting on a girl's post. If he flirted with her then that would be disrespectful.

I got male friends and he has female friends. When we got into the relationship we didn't expect one another to throw away our friendships with the opposite sex. And even if it's a woman he didn't know and liked her post. He's doing nothing wrong unless he starts flirting with her.

RuthlessAggression · Accepted Answer

It's like having a girlfriend/boyfriend and they claiming you don't. Why do you need to be following other "girls/boys", if you have an s. o.

I'm not saying you can't, I'm saying WHY. Why do you NEED to?

Whatever2929292 · Accepted Answer

Within reason NO. Why do I care? They are with me not them. There isn't anything wrong with liking someone's post if it was a good photo of them

Hrumf · Answer

Of course it depends on the picture he likes (if she is half nekkid and he does something like the ❤️response I would have an issue) but, other than that, why would I care?
He can look but not touch, and sometimes liking a picture like that is akin to touching on social media in my opinion.

Emogirl999 · Answer

It used to bother me when I was with my ex but now I'm in a strong an secure relationship and I know my worth so it doesn't bother me anymore. I know I'm attractive and that my boyfriend is crazy about me, why should I care if he finds other girls attractive, it's natural to find people attractive, as long as you aren't cheating, admiring attractive people is harmless.

Smoke-n-Growls · Answer

Not in and of itself, no.  But part of it depends on what and why. Context is important. But if it's just normal social media use? No.

Nawlins34 · Answer

Not even a little bit. I trust her. And if I didn't? I'd drop her; I'm not playing detective.

AssholeNumberOne · Answer

Course not. It's a natural way of life, knowing what you wanna see. And people have a right to keeping their follow lists private.

bowenw · Answer

It doesn't bother me. She doesn't monitor my social media activity and I don't monitor hers other than we like each other's posts.

20yearsolder · Answer

Nope, it doesn't matter where you get your appetite as long as you eat it home

1GoldTwins · Answer

No, when I was active on social media, I did that all the time

LazerBean · Answer

It depends on if it's some instgra bikini model or someone they actually know and what the post is.

billmunch · Answer

I don't even consider it disrespectful if my SO has another guy on the side.

sheikalana · Answer

I don’t care. We will always follow and talk to people from the opposite gender.

Dongle1 · Answer

No, why would I be that insecure? You build trust for a reason, unless given a good reason not to trust why make something a big deal when its very trivial over who someone follows online.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

That depends. If it's Instagram, then I might have an issue with it.

StickStickity13 · Answer

Nope, I always follow super hot women. She can follow who she wants

hhhffg7889 · Answer

No. Doesn't bother me. They get her turned on sometimes

MegaMachina · Answer

No, doesn't bother me at all. Why would it?

itsalyssaagain · Answer

Yes it does bother me and I find it disrespectful.

nachosaresexy · Answer

Nah not automatically. Depends on the context.

Ariana9819 · Answer

Depends if and how he knows the girl in the pic 😂

jshm2 · Answer

No. Don't be such a control freak.

mandyfire98 · Answer

Not at all.

Subarugirl · Answer

No I dont

jasco · Answer

No its fine

anylolone · Answer

Nope.

In_Trance · Answer

No...

AFretiredTXen · Answer

No..

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