If your boyfriend's friends 90% of them are girls
If your girlfriend's friends 90% of them are boys
Yeah, i hate that. I just can't.. What's there about u to the point u can't even mangle well with your own gender?
Yes, it's a red flag. It's especially a red flag if those "friends" are single, and even more so if she is in denial about the fact that they all want to sleep with her. Most women either legitimately don't understand men or they pretend that they don't so they can take advantage of the situation.
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For me, if a woman has mostly guy friends it tells me a few things.
- She can't get along with her own gender. She hates them and they hate her.
- "I just get along with guys better" "guys aren't about drama" blah blah Every single woman I've known who had this attitude was a nightmare.
- ANY female was automatically treated with hostility, skepticism, etc. Just exhausting.
- Most of them played dumb about all of her 'guy friends' wanting to bang her.
- Was invited to meet ONE of these 'guy friends' out of dozens my significant others had over the years. Hmmm, how curious.
Yeah can I get a red 🚩 flag please? I'm out...
I used to feel threatened by a guy being friends with a bunch of “single” girls (if i felt they were flirting, otherwise no). But my current guy has shown that the same sex is just as much of a threat. They have tooooo much influence over him. He struggles to think for himself as old as he is.
No. His friends mostly are. He's introduced me to most of his friends and I've yet to get a bad vibe from any of the girls. The guys though, not so much. Mind you, most of my friends including my best friend, are men.
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I selected "yes," but that's not really accurate to how I feel. It's not that having those friends turns me off, it's that having those friends makes me wonder why, and it's not really like I can ask, so I would simply rather avoid the whole situation.
All my friends who were girls were with girlfriends/wives of friends or i wanted to date them. My mind won't change from these.
Woman will be surrounded by guys she was wants to date or by guys she can control and manipulate.
Guys will surround himself with girls he wants to sleep with or with those they can't to get a chance.
No I don't find it a turn off. Majority of my boyfriend's friends are girls but I don't mind because majority are married or with someone.
I don't care of their gender. They are friends and personally I think it's good he has friends.
I had my wife weed out her opposite sex friends when we got together by sending them text messages offering to fuck them.. If they responded that they wanted to, she blocked them.. The ones that didn't respond like that got to stick around.. out of 15 male friends only two got to stay friends.
I would meet and get a feel of what the relationship between them is like. I know some guys that have primarily female friends and they are typically great in relationships because they can vibe well with females.
Yes. Not because of jealousy but because I'd think there's something wrong with him and his socialization or that he's effeminate.
Having friends of the opposite gender is fine. HOWEVER…there needs to be boundaries.
Yes. I don't think it's appropriate.
Once you are in a serious relationship that whole friendship thing of the opposite sex needs to stop for the sake of peace of that relationship itself.
Yes, I would not date or like a guy if he has female friends. I don’t care if it’s only 1.
Not a turnoff but I might be jealous at least at first
No, not unless they are guys she used to date or had sex with
I don’t think there’s something wrong about someone who has mostly or only friends from their opposite sex. I have zero female friends. I just don’t feel comfortable around women, cause I’m more masculine.
Very much so.
I wouldn’t even call it so much “insecurity” as it is just being realistic.
Chances are you are going to get dumped or cheated on once they become bored with you
no such indication. good that they are/she is- social and have 3 or more friends. friend zone isn't any threat.
Probably prefer her to have few friends and not clingy friends urgh yuck vomits 🤢🤮
I find it a massive turn-off if people can't spell "you".
As long as everyone understands that friends are friends, no.
Couples should sit down and talk things over.
- m
yes
won't date someone like that
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