Guys, what kind of kiss would you give a woman for the first time, or would like her to give you?

[Anonymous]

It seems like first or second date is what majority of guys can accept for first kiss during dating process, based on my previous questions.

For a woman you're going on dates with, what kind of kiss would you give her? Or if you'd be okay with a woman initiating kissing, what kind of kiss would you want her to give you?

I've had guys poke my lips with their tongues on first or second dates 😖 I've also been lip locked on first date, which was good, but on a first date?

I had thought that kisses on first or second date are more like pecks, or would you not like this kind of kisses?

Thank you for the insight.

[Anonymous]

I am a lot slower on jumping into that, which is probably partly why I don't have much success.

She's welcome to initiate... or at least give me some clues that she'd be up for it. If I don't get anything from her, I'm probably either going to wait, or maybe go for the cheek. I might be dumb enough to ask. (I'm just supposed to know in spite of either VERY subtle cues or no cues at all, with all the Me too stuff). Yeah, this is second or third date, but I've dated girls who weren't super interested and gotten four dates from them... so you never know.

I'd probably try for lip at the end of the date (if I got some good hints she was interested) as the first or second kiss. If she turned her head, (but had given hints) I'd go for cheek. If she looked like she didn't mind, I think maybe two or three sort of quick ones, but enough to sort of linger on two or three. I don't think tongues for "first kiss" date yet, though maybe a hint of that would be ok. We leave each other wanting more, or like it's a hint of things to come.

[PizzaDaddyo]

Okay you gotta shoot for the kill but, when the right time or with great timing. A peck is closer to what is required. So when to mood and setting is right go for a solid “plant” of a kiss that should be like a couple juicy seconds long to let her know the deal and a quick steal of another one and bump up the passion to show her that you enjoyed it, you are there and you mean business. At this point be ware of any plot twist but, if the coast is clear it would just continue but depending on the circumstances I’d try my best not to add tongue early on some girls need it though and will be the ones going for the tongue.

[AviatorTom]

Our first date, me and my SO, ended with me walking her to her car, pulling her close, and kissing her tenderly. She returned the kiss and it got pretty passionate for both of us.

[CriticalCatDad]

I once kissed my at the time girlfriend while she was sleeping. Eventually when we broke up she tells me she hated the fact that I kissed her while she slept when say the time I thought it would be something she would have liked. Now I don’t give women the privilege. They’veruined it for me

[Asker]

I wasn't asking about kissing women while they're asleep. I was asking about kissing on dates 🤔

[slatyb]

I don't kiss a woman until she is ready to be kissed. They let me know by getting close and making it easy. I don't plan it -- I just kiss her and see how she responds.

[DryGermanGuy]

https://youtu.be/mlZHMGch1pQ?si=xFUx9VhoDepBteiZ

[itsclearlynicholas]

Probably a peck on the cheek. Then in future dates a quick kiss. Then eventually a long passionate kiss 💋😘 👄😗

[itsclearlynicholas]

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[exitseven]

I usually just went for a brief kiss on the lips, maybe a little tongue. If it went well maybe I would be a little more intense.

[TadCurious]

Just a short kiss on the lips. Nothing too much and no tongue.

[Jamie05rhs]

I'm not interested in kissing anytime soon. Maybe later.

[Asker]

And how would you do your kiss, when you kiss a woman for the first time?

[LEGENDARY4200]

Lingering kiss on her lips with a little tongue. Very lightly sucking on her bottom lip and biting it as i pull away

[dudeinohio]

Intensity of the kiss is dependent upon how much we are into each other.

[Iron_Man]

After I known her a while, I kiss on the lips, but I don’t want it to be too much at first

[DrPepper12]

A peck is fine. Tickle tonsils later