I asked a question about this guy yesterday, but there are a few more recent details. If you can read all of this, thank you! So, yesterday I went to a cheap shop to buy some deodorant, and a guy approached me. He was asking me questions and saying he really liked me and asked me for my number, but I was reluctant because he looked approx in his mid 20s and I'm 17. I asked him how old he was and he said 19. We're both Nigerian, and I don't mean to sound rude when I say this but he kind of looked like one of those immigrants who lie about their age and say they're younger than they actually are. He said we could start off being friends and that if I didn't give him my number I'd never know what would happen and we could try and see how things would go. I was still reluctant so I considered giving a fake number but I thought somehow I'd make a mistake and make it obvious that the number was fake so I gave him my number.
He actually called my number to make sure it wasn't fake, so if I gave him a fake one it would have been awkward because it may have been someone else's number and they would have answered, and my phone wouldn't be ringing. He asked when would be a good time to call and I said 8pm, then he said it was nice to meet me and then kissed my hand and walked away. A minute later he came back and offered me money to buy my deodorant from a better shop, saying 'I like my women to smell good'. I kept refusing the money but he was trying to persuade me by saying the money was from his heart and he referred to me as a woman he was serious about and wanted to be with, but eventually accepted my refusal. Then he saw some family members and introduced me to one of them who was a woman, but he was busy talking to them so I bought the deodorant and left.
I later texted him saying I was busy with something (it was true at the time) and I wouldn't be able to pick his call but he could still text me. The thing I was busy with had changed, but I still used it as an excuse to not talk on the phone with him so I didn't tell him it had changed. He said that he hoped I enjoyed meeting him and his family, and I said yes and that he was really nice. Then he said he was nice because he was 'for me' and that his spirit told him I'll be a good girlfriend to him. Later he told me his aunt (the woman he introduced me to in the shop) liked me and thought I looked cool, and that he had told her I was his girl, and that he missed me and couldn't stop thinking about me Then when I told him I was going to bed and said good night, he said 'I'll speak with you tomorrow. Love you xx'! I was shocked at this because the last guy I was involved with last year told me he was in love with me and I was the one after a month, but he had moved back and forth between me and two other girls that he had recently developed feelings for. I thought he was quick to say he loved me, but this new guy hardly knows anything about me! How could he say that after a few hours?
He actually called my number to make sure it wasn't fake, so if I gave him a fake one it would have been awkward because it may have been someone else's number and they would have answered, and my phone wouldn't be ringing. He asked when would be a good time to call and I said 8pm, then he said it was nice to meet me and then kissed my hand and walked away. A minute later he came back and offered me money to buy my deodorant from a better shop, saying 'I like my women to smell good'. I kept refusing the money but he was trying to persuade me by saying the money was from his heart and he referred to me as a woman he was serious about and wanted to be with, but eventually accepted my refusal. Then he saw some family members and introduced me to one of them who was a woman, but he was busy talking to them so I bought the deodorant and left.
I later texted him saying I was busy with something (it was true at the time) and I wouldn't be able to pick his call but he could still text me. The thing I was busy with had changed, but I still used it as an excuse to not talk on the phone with him so I didn't tell him it had changed. He said that he hoped I enjoyed meeting him and his family, and I said yes and that he was really nice. Then he said he was nice because he was 'for me' and that his spirit told him I'll be a good girlfriend to him. Later he told me his aunt (the woman he introduced me to in the shop) liked me and thought I looked cool, and that he had told her I was his girl, and that he missed me and couldn't stop thinking about me Then when I told him I was going to bed and said good night, he said 'I'll speak with you tomorrow. Love you xx'! I was shocked at this because the last guy I was involved with last year told me he was in love with me and I was the one after a month, but he had moved back and forth between me and two other girls that he had recently developed feelings for. I thought he was quick to say he loved me, but this new guy hardly knows anything about me! How could he say that after a few hours?
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