A question for women but guys are more than welcome to give their input.
Went and got coffee with this woman and we exchanged contact information, after which we bumped into each other a few times and talked a bit. I told her we should meet up when she's back from a business trip. She said we'll arrange something, then called me asking if I wanted to meet up for drinks. I agreed, and it seemed to go well but she wasn't initiating any touch, even though I was which she was okay with. She made a comment about how the first kiss is the basis of the relationship but I felt that really forced the kiss (kind of like a guy asking if he can get a good night kiss - pretty much kills the vibe) so I called her out on it saying she'll have to wait and see.
We bumped into each other again a week later, and she was open to touch again (small of back, stomach, legs, etc.) but wasn't really initiating it, but she seemed to be having a good time and wanted to hang out for longer which made our hangout take up the better half of a day. At the end though she didn't attempt to even hug me (same with the first date and the coffee meet up) when she was leaving, so I took the initiative and hugged her and gave her a couple of pecks on the cheek.
Saw her again a few days later, and she was still hovering around me, leaving her co-worker to talk to me, but when I asked her if she wanted to go for a drink, she told me she was busy that week, so I said okay we can try again next week. I ended up being pretty busy and not seeing her for a week and a half at which point she would still hover around me but she was a bit more distant but she would still hover around me and initiate conversation. I shot her a text the next day and she replied a couple of days later telling me how sorry she was for replying so late and she's been busy and will be busy for a while but would like a rain check.
Ladies, should I assume she's losing interest given that she's blown me off twice?
Went and got coffee with this woman and we exchanged contact information, after which we bumped into each other a few times and talked a bit. I told her we should meet up when she's back from a business trip. She said we'll arrange something, then called me asking if I wanted to meet up for drinks. I agreed, and it seemed to go well but she wasn't initiating any touch, even though I was which she was okay with. She made a comment about how the first kiss is the basis of the relationship but I felt that really forced the kiss (kind of like a guy asking if he can get a good night kiss - pretty much kills the vibe) so I called her out on it saying she'll have to wait and see.
We bumped into each other again a week later, and she was open to touch again (small of back, stomach, legs, etc.) but wasn't really initiating it, but she seemed to be having a good time and wanted to hang out for longer which made our hangout take up the better half of a day. At the end though she didn't attempt to even hug me (same with the first date and the coffee meet up) when she was leaving, so I took the initiative and hugged her and gave her a couple of pecks on the cheek.
Saw her again a few days later, and she was still hovering around me, leaving her co-worker to talk to me, but when I asked her if she wanted to go for a drink, she told me she was busy that week, so I said okay we can try again next week. I ended up being pretty busy and not seeing her for a week and a half at which point she would still hover around me but she was a bit more distant but she would still hover around me and initiate conversation. I shot her a text the next day and she replied a couple of days later telling me how sorry she was for replying so late and she's been busy and will be busy for a while but would like a rain check.
Ladies, should I assume she's losing interest given that she's blown me off twice?
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