A guy was super romantic then told me he has no feelings?

[Anonymous]

This guy took me on a few dates and was super romantic on each one. Very gentlemanly, always paid, opened doors for me. Held hands with me. Kissed me often. Like would just lean over and give me a deep kiss. Made out a lot. Hugged me. Always kissed me hi and bye. Put his arm around me like I was his woman. Was always eager to see me. No sex. So obviously i’m thinking he likes me…? And then we’re talking and i’m saying I like him (because he’s been so kind and such a gentleman, of course i’m going to like you) and he acts all shocked and uncomfortable like whaaat you like me? I don’t have feelings for you.. I was like um.. ok so why were you acting like that what was the point? And he was like that’s what you’re supposed to do when you’re dating. Wtf ☠️ They always say watch his actions not his words and even that backfired for me. I’m really about to give up on men, they are a whole different species.

[Anonymous]

I don't know some people are overly romantic way too early on and it’s honestly a red flag for me. I’d understand being a gentleman, but being overly affectionate when you don’t have actual feelings for the person kinda comes across as manipulative.

[elew4too]

Some men are simply raised well. Gentlemanly behavior does not necessarily mean he likes you. You have to entice a man to want to be with you. Existing as a woman and engaging in sexual behavior isn't enough

[Asker]

How would I entice a man to want to be with me?

[elew4too]

Skills and self betterment: doing interesting work, cool hobbies, cooking, working out, organizing events, gardening, painting, playing music, interior design, educational attainment, knowing massages, carpentry, playing sports, knitting, designing clothes, planning skills, investing, running, hiking, etc.

Guys like women who do more than be on their phone and Netflix while putting out every once and a while (not saying that’s all you do, of course)

[Roudyrebel8]

He done bumped his head and lost his mind

[Asker]

Let me ask you this, are you men capable of acting completely romantic with no feeling behind it?

[Roudyrebel8]

Speaking for myself if I'm acting romantic I mean it but yes there are guys out there that do