A guy I like asked me to hangout and kissed me and then we made out and he kept saying he wanted us to hangout more, and I initated contact the next day just saying I had fun and he said he did too. And then I asked him to hangout but he couldn't because he was busy. And now whenever I bump into him he gives me a hug but nothing happens, and I'm kind of sad he hasn't asked me to hang out when he was the one who originally initiated it and seemed really into me. So now I'm worried I blew it by texting him and stuff and initiating things :[ I don't get what happened...I'm sad about it. I don't want to stop all contact with him so we've been writing back and forth a little bit on Facebook but he's not really engaging me at all :\ Also he's younger and probably not looking for anything serious. But still, why isn't he asking me to hang?
AND, NOTHING COULD BE FURTHER FROM THE TRUTH.
Everything on this list is the same as putting a sign on your chest that says “Needy.” It smacks of desperation. And, it's just plain not attractive to him.
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