Polls

There’s a couple that I know that are together for over 3 years now and right from day 1 the guy insists that they spit the bill 50/50…. they’re in a committed relationship way past the casual dating phase.
For the guy to want to split bills is it because he doesn’t trust his partner or is it because he’s inexperienced?
(this is his very first serious girlfriend that he’s ever had and he lives on his own).

Or is it because these days both people chip in their half because the cost of living has gotten expensive?

I've never had a problem making pastry, it's pretty simple and always turns out fine. I've made different types of sweet and plain kinds, I don't overthink or do anything special. Some say you need cold hands, others that you have to sell your soul to the devil first. Either way, making pastry is something a lot of people struggle with.

But what about you?

Hi guys, so I've had a crush on this one guy and I've been debating if I should dm him on insta wishing happy holidays? Will I come off as needy? Must say we talk and he tells me stuff even though he's the type of guy that doesn't tell anybody anything. FYI: Not too long ago I asked him why doesn't he add me on insta (I haven't requested anything just wanted to see his reaction) and he was in shock (he said noo way maybe that cause I'm barely there). Two hours later I sent him a request and he accepted it immediately (seems like he waited for me to do so) and sent me a follow request just as quickly. Does this mean anything?

I've never had problems with dudes, but I've seen a decent amount of guys online say they only want short women or that if you're over 5'6 you're cooked, stuff like that. I kinda want to see if my dating pool is actually smaller than average

• You have to pay bribes to get higher education and a job, especially if you didn’t score 99.99%.

• When you use the Right to Information Act, they refuse to disclose any information.

• A tea seller becomes the leader of the country and then tells others to sell tea instead of providing jobs, while he wears clothes that are 1000 times more expensive than what the average person in his country can afford.

• Some people get reservations based on their caste in both educational institutions and jobs.

• Interviewers ask stupid questions, like whether you can cook or if you listen to hymns, even if the job doesn’t require any of those skills or qualifications.

• You receive at least one call from scammers every month.

• Rape and arranged marriages are the most common ways for boys to get sex.

• Three out of ten boys ask you to send them lots of pictures before they take you seriously.

• Boys who lack skills and have a thin, short penis demand 5 million dollars (either directly or by asking about your income) to marry you.

• This country has the highest number of iron rod insertions inside female bodies.

• Stray animals roam freely on the roads, even in big cities.

• Finding human feces at railway stations or on roads is rather common.

• The accent sounds very unpleasant, and they’re proud of it. They bully you if you don’t talk like them.

• They sell dangerous cosmetics to lighten women’s complexions but lose their minds if a safer lightening cream is released for men in that country.

• Only boys are supported and encouraged to leave the country. Girls have to marry one of those boys to have a chance at moving abroad.

• They can memorize facts like robots, but if you ask them for a reason, they can’t explain it in simple words (and if you can’t explain something in simple words, you don’t understand it, according to Einstein).

• Parents here think their children, especially girls, are their slaves.

Do you think the examiners are seriously creepy? Would you get suspicious? Would you trust the fairness of that exam? Would you be weirded out?

When he first started talking we would text/call every day. Then about 3 weeks ago he stated sorry for the lack of communication and that he didn't want to bore me by texting me all the time. Last week it was only once a day texting and leaving me on delivered sometimes. Maybe he would call. If I called he didn't answer and not even a text saying why. When he finally did call me I asked him why and he said that he was busy. It literally takes 1 second to just say I'm busy I can't talk right now. I haven't heard from him since Saturday night and I message him back that day but he left me on delivered again. I'm literally over this 🤦‍♀️. I had a bad feeling so I made a fake dating account and his account is still on there. He knew that I deleted my account. Our schedules are busy so I didn't make it a big deal but I saw him a week ago and on our date he was texting his brother from time to time and replying fast. But when it comes to me it takes him hours. I feel he doesn't like me anymore.

i just tried British chocolate for the first time as an American and it was so fucking GOOOOD. it was Aero and Cadbury. im not even big on chocolate either, but i just like UK's texture more

also i feel so sophisticated now... having tried British candy

What are you doing from here if you are single?

👉No details. Just curiosity👈

Happy Sunday 💚

IR if it’s already going badly, I hope it gets better for you ❤️‍🩹

if intelligence, kindness, nd talent are qualities that can be found in people of every race, nd no race has a monopoly on these traits, then y does racism still exist? If we all have the same potential to be good, smart, and capable, y do some people judge others based purely on skin color or ethnicity? Shouldn’t a person’s character nd abilities matter more than their racial background?

I was sexually assaulted in the waiting line in a grocery shop by an Ukrainian refugee, he grinded on me, at first I thought I was imagining things or that maybe it's normal in his country to stay very close in waiting line but when I felt his breathing growing very heavy on my neck / ear and felt him lean on me more and more I had no doubt anymore but did not fight back, I just moved of line.

Does it count as sexual assault since I did not say anything? Should I even bother to do anything? I do not want to be a mean person as I know Ukraine is at war and ptds and stuff and crazy but it did really made me uncomfortable too I was alone and he was with 3 others Ukrainian men (I'm guessing they were all friends or they were together during army service, my country train Ukrainian soldier and there's a military base near where I live). So if I say anything I have no one on my side and he have three people, also I feel bad for them I don't want them to be hurt or anything but what the guy did is not good.

Who were they in your life?

This guy I’ve been talking to in a more than friendly way online for over a year told me that since I found out his real name, he felt a little nervous continuing to talk sex with me. But, he said he liked being my friend and still thinks I’m very hot.

Now a month in, I’m hearing from him on a daily basis again, he sends me lots of pics of what he’s doing, he asks me questions anddd he called me “doll” twice the past couple days which I specifically told him that I liked in the past. Is this him warming up to me again or am I overthinking it?

ex: what are you doing doll?

Nice simple innocent question for the weekend.