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Many girls I notice are dating married men, knowing fully well that that the man is married and even his wife knows about this extramarital affair. Who is to blame for this state of affairs? Some of these "second" women are actually successful in their careers and are pretty. They will never have trouble finding a guy that will treat them with love and dignity. Is it better to be alone, with a loving man in a boring relationship, or to a "second" woman in a relationship?

Is that a big deal?
it’s not noticeable at all glance

but if I tell you and you stare at it, then you can start to see it,

then you will always notice it in certain clothes.

I know this because I asked my mom and she said to her they look the same. Then I told her to look at them as I stood still and then she said yeah one is smaller

so is that a turn off to men? If you notice it?

If you want to look sophisticated in an Italian restaurant then ask for your spaghetti to be served on top of toast. It demonstrates a level of refinement beyond the average customer and a respect for the food.

Of course you can replicate this dish of contrasting textures at home with tinned spaghetti. So which of these options looks best?

I am looking forward to spring now that the holidays over over. I have a choice of three dresses that all fit me. Which of these do you think I should buy to wear in the spring?

My cousin and I had a falling out after she did something I asked her not to do revolving a guy…She is transgender and at first I told her to look on his page then I said never mind bc I realized I may not be able to trust her. I felt upset because I was not over the guy and it took me a year to really stop hurting….. I was telling my mother about it and she unknowingly admitted to me that she did snoop and she tried to see if he would reach out to her…. which hurt me soooo deeply. Instead of addressing the issue or supporting me, my mother brushed it off and continued to act as if nothing was wrong between us. This made me feel betrayed and dismissed, and I’m finding it hard to move past it.

she said things like “she wouldn’t do that “ “take responsibility for involving her” “ you’ve done things too” ( I would never try to talk to someone else’s person)…

I feel extremely hurt..

You never know, they will either be worth money someday, or you may have to pay someone to take them off your hands.

I love fashion questions. I know that according to the "experts", OPI and Essie are the top two nail brands on the market. I have been an OPI girl, but I have other friends who will swear by Essie. I am curious if you like OPI, Essie, or some other brand. Any information would be appreciated as we go into spring. Thanks.

Dried beans are a staple in many cupboards and many consider them superior to the tinned versions. If I'm making a bean based dish I like to use cannelloni but I'm not against using a mixed bag. I keep the kidney beans for chilli's.

Bit what of you, what's your favourite bean and without googling it which one of these is the one you get in tinned of baked beans?

I want them, if they exist 🥹

Do you just do as our news dictates?

it’s apparent trying to place blame on who they want to go to war with, is anyone watching?

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It's upside-down could he not even read Arabic?

they don’t care who has to die as long as it serves the purpose for their agenda. In this case kill a few to get the rest of the population against who they want to bomb next. As always.

are you part of the sheep? 🐑

Just think, they can sit on your shoulder wherever you go, just like a bird might. Uhh, hopefully without the mess.

Why or why not?

If you have been with one, how was your experience?

So I am in an exklusive dating with a guy who is 30 and I am 22. We ve been dating since October 2024.

I feel like there are some issues between us and also there are some problems on my part that I feel like may cause this relationship to end.

A month ago, I asked how he feels about me and if we could be girlfriend and boyfriend, but he said he is not read.

He says he likes me, and we do go on some dates every time we meet. But I feel like he is mostly interested in sex. Why do things that are done in a relationship but not want to have a relationship? Is it commitment issues or he just doesn't love me?

by the way we live in different cities so we visit each other. Like taking turns.

I want to love and to be loved deeply, but I feel like he does not love me and my feeling for him are decreasing, maybe because I am dissapointed. And for me, feelings is what makes me continue a relationship, which mean it's more important for me than sex.

I feel so insecure because of a lot of things

- that he does not show enough care. For example when he talks about his problems, I pay attention, care for him and solve them together. But when I talk about my problems, he just say it's gonna be alright and good night. No more comfort/care or whatever.

- he forgot my birthday

- I feel like he just is dating me as a second option just because other girls have not chosen him

- that my university grades are not so great right now and my family use me now and then.

- a lot of things has happened lately that makes me question myself, my relationship and my family. I see negativity more that positivity. I don't know if I am starting to become depressed.

I am a bit naive I guess.

I am thinking if I should break up with him because I don't feel loved the way I want or if I just should wait and see how it goes first and then decide.

I am also tired of dating and relationship that waste my time and feelings. I am tired of being used just for being kind. People treat me as an idiot and naive.