How many of you girls get guys asking you out in real life as in face 2 face?

[BMW_888]

Not including Insta DM, Dating Apps, Tik Tok, Facebook & Other Social Media Outlets.

If yes face 2 face how do you girls get approached, what conversation starter/pick up lines & kind of places normally you get approached like at the gym, airport, bars, concerts, raves, music festivals, work, university & etc.

Everyday

Weekly Basis

Monthly

Single for 1 year

Single for 2 years

Single for 3 years

Single for 4 years

[Summeroflove]

Honestly, guys who get a lot of attention don’t need to waste time online with girls they don’t know and are well many frankly….

A lot of girls seem to open the window by asking something or saying something random to get me to start talking to them. If I’m in a hurry I am kind and do my best to end the conversation like I’m really busy and have to go.

But I mean directly ask me out…. Yes, a few times. But unless he’s a player a lot of dudes who get female attention are either taken or have w lot of options. They aren’t typically approaching random women they don’t know. Just not generally sone might and dudes who are players might.

[DishLady]

I'm not on all the apps (just one professional site and g@g), so that's not an issue for me. But in person I get asked for my number or a coffee or whatever pretty regularly, though I don't really have time to take a guy up on that sort of thing. Not "every day" but on average perhaps a couple of times a week. Yeah, it's always FTF, so at least they know what they see is what they get. (I never liked the idea of the apps... they seem shady.) The one thing that bothers me about accepting to go out with a guy now is that just because *I'M* not on the apps doesn't mean that *HE* isn't on the apps and juggling a dozen gals at the same time. I'd rather sip my coffee quietly alone at home than to be with a guy who does that...

[Finchie40]

Yea online dating isn’t for me either , not saying I wouldn’t do it , but it’s not on the top of my to do list. I prefer meeting girls’ in public over the internet. Too much drama occurs over the internet , why I limited myself from it as much as possible. Especially when I am dating a girl as well , my internet time dwindles as well because it’s less drama. I feel internet is part of the reason relationships struggle by so many people being nosey in your life. I remember when we didn’t carry around cell phones with internet access , peoples’ relationships were more at peace and content with each other , Now it’s who’s that bitch adding you as a friend or sending you a message , Who is that girl on your profile , etc. and worst of all let’s track each other so I can make sure you are safe? Like come on people no one should be tracking their partner period , that is clearly stalking and not trusting your partner period Sadly this world is turning to shit with all this technology , Old school relationships aren’t even a thing anymore sadly to say

[OlderAndWiser]

You've gotta take a chance if you wanna find romance!

[DishLady]

@OlderAndWiser
I'm not sure I'd like to anymore, tbh. So many shady characters out there I'm not actually tempted to date at all.

[Finchie40]

I still take chances but I am in no rush to be in one , I had my fair share of failed relationships to the point I am trying to play my cards right this time around. I actually like being single and doing my own thing , I still meet girls’ and have fun with girls’ that just want friendship and sex , so it seems to be working for me and them as well. I am still legally married as well but my wife and I are no longer together , we are just mutual for the kids sake , we both agreed we don’t want to go through a divorce until one of us has to. Her and I are in no rush to move on and start over , her health is declining so I been helping her out and I still love and care about her , We just can’t be with each other anymore because we butt heads to much , so we decided to stay mutual and do our own things , we kind of have an open relationship if you want to put a label on it. She does her thing I do mine pretty much , we are both open and honest to each other and I tell her the truth when I meet a girl or have sex with a girl , I told her to do the same , she says she doesn’t want another guy whatsoever, I think she is bi sexual and I think she is fooling around with her girlfriend she just won’t admit it for whatever reason. But they go away on girls’ trips just the 2 of them. I honestly no longer care what she does to be honest with you , all I know is I am doing my thing and having as much fun as I can

[Finchie40]

The only bad thing is , I tend to end up in bed with married women and girls’ that are in relationships that lie to me that they are single , another reason I am not rushing for a relationship, a lot of selfish people in this world but I love sex

[alice55]

Guys approach me multiple time a day to flirt with me but they're pussy in France and wait for the girl to ask their number and for me real men need to make the first step so they don't ask my number I"m not gonna do it either, I don't want to end up with a leftist.

[blackeagle007]

It’s nothing political. Good god, let go of politics. It’s the culture we’re. I’m independent by the way. If we approach, automatically we get yelled at for being creeps, sex offenders etc. so why bother approaching when your gender gives us grief for being a man?

[alice55]

@blackeagle007 You make no sense at all, I said men approach me everyday flirting with me, asking me lot of question but never have the balls to ask for my number if they were worried about being creep they wouldn't go out of their ways to compliment me and flirt with me be logical.
And you're just crying for no reasons as nobody call the police for this kind of stuff you think police care about it? They would just say to the girl to get lost and stop dressing in revealing clothes.

And men aren't afraid to approach I have the proves everyday those afraid are leftist and whiner.

[blackeagle007]

Hush. You’re so much like trump, using political propaganda. Didn’t I see you on seeking arraignments?

[alice55]

@blackeagle007 Trump is good, at least he's trying to help stop the war, he's the only one who actually act.
You sound like a liberal...
What's is it seeking arraignments?

[blackeagle007]

You should know, you’re on there. As always judging people who they vote for. Once a maga, always

[alice55]

@blackeagle007 I'm confused, I don't know what's it, I'm French I don't know all the English words.
Mega what does it mean?
I'm rather confused by your weird use of English.

[blackeagle007]

I think you know. I doubt you’re French

[alice55]

@blackeagle007 Et je pense que tu est complètement fou mais c'est logique vu que tu est de gauche.
I don't even know what to tell you anymore, you're crazy and paranoid, get help or better ask a phsyciatre to lock you in a asylum you're a dangerous weirdo.

[blackeagle007]

I still insist it’s a woman’s job to approach and ask out. When we do it, we get shit on and called “creepy”

[BMW_888]

It's a man's job to initiate. Women can give hints but guys approach. Creepy only if it's not done correctly. If it's at a bar, gym, concerts, music festivals & etc then it's alright. But stalking & harassing is not cool.

[Sssssshhhhh123]

Being a women that doesn’t have social media. Or do dating apps. I honestly can’t remember the last time someone asked me face to face to go on a date. In the world we live in it’s easier for people to ask through text messages, emails, whatever internet platforms you are using. A lot of guys are shy too and that’s ok!! It would be nice if it was more often but also it depends on the approach because it can come off creepy and weird if not done correctly.

[Valdemort]

Genuinely having been asked out on the spot, happened to me twice.
Once at a bar during festival season & once walking down the Banks in Cincy after a baseball match.

[Anonymous]

I've only ever had 2 guys ask me out in real life before joining dating apps to meet men I'm a very shy person til I get to know someone so I feel like a lot of people turn away from that but on dating app I had 2000 matches it's crazy how it works lol

[PeachyPie93]

Once or twice a year.. more often I just have a random dude just staring at me not sure why 🤷🏻‍♀️

[BMW_888]

Staring & but hesistant to approach.

[Nikki1989]

Maybe once a week I might get asked out OR a man will try to chat me up. I meet new people every day, so it is difficult to avoid.

[satinpetals]

Even being married I get hit on and asked out relatively frequently, maybe once a month or every couple of months

[Eros91]

everyday and few women to. Some I don’t know if they are serious.

[Anonymous]

It’s happened a lot, but then again I’m still in school, so maybe that’s why.

[Taylor_C]

Never happened

[Maria0002]

I’ve done few time and asked a woman out to.

[Anonymous]

Never had anyone ask me out irl

[BMW_888]

Doll up & put yourself out there more like at a bar, gym, classes, concerts, music festivals, ask your friend to recommend, have a bigger connection, try Bumble Dating Apps & Dating Websites (Make friends 1st & see where it goes), group classes, Meetup (App/Website), on Insta (Check ur DM's & Comments), TikTok, Facebook & other Social Media Outlets.

Travelling also can meet someone.

Beware of Catfish & Scammers.

[Opinion Owner]

I’m trying online , I don't know if he’ll get back to me tho.

[BMW_888]

Which country are you from? Just curious

[Opinion Owner]

America

[BMW_888]

I see. Be careful most of the dating apps are looking for hookups/not serious. Only certain people are alright.

Dating Websites: More serious. If you never try, you will never know. Keep your options open.

Coffee Meets Bagel dating apps for serious relationships. Facebook dating also got. Google what are the main/best dating apps & websites and try to find your Match.

Generally, guys who are 30+ are more better (Matured, serious & financially stable) . Age gap is needed if not you will regret & waste your 20's life.

[Opinion Owner]

I’ve dated men online in their 30’s sadly they’re not much more mature.

[BMW_888]

Women mature faster. Guys mature very late, that's the truth. It depends on the person what they are looking for fun/casual dates, intimacy without commitment. Set boundaries in a relationship. Try different ethnicities.

[Opinion Owner]

thanks

[BMW_888]

You're welcome :)

[Anonymous]

I'm single my whole miserable life :(

[BMW_888]

What happened? Give more info

[Opinion Owner]

All of my loves were unrequited.

[BMW_888]

Keep trying dating apps & websites. There's someone for everyone

[Opinion Owner]

I hope so, I'll try.