Polls

I know some people have the end goal of marriage when it comes to dating. Me personally, I date because I want to build a closer more intimate and romantic relationship with the person I’m interested in. I don’t really care if we get married or not, I’m just going with the flow, if he ends up being “the one” then I’d consider marriage but other than that I usually just want to be with them for the sake of being with them. I don’t feel like I’m wasting my time either bcs the time was well spent getting to know that person, whether it ends in marriage or not. What about you? Do you date to marry or do you date just to date them?

My boyfriend is the best guy i have ever dated he makes all the efforts and loves me a lot which is why i said yes to him.

It has been a year since we started dating and i have to remind myself most of the times to reciprocate his efforts it's like a task for me and it does not come naturally as it used to with my first boyfriend. I love him tho but he love me more and i am not able to reciprocate that much efforts and love.. recently i have found myself being irritated coz he shows too much affection but i hide those feelings from him.

I don't want to loose him but i feel bad cos i don't treat him as well as he does. I think his looks embarrass me sometimes from posting a picture with him but i love his nature and personality.

Should i leave him so he could find someone better or should i stay with him and try to love him more... it will really be hard for him to move on and i don't want him to go through such pain neither do i want to loose such an amazing guy.

Imagine you have a friend with whom you've had an argument. Proper reconciliation doesn't happen and the friend decides to create distance. Which scenario would you argue is psychologically worse for you?

Being cut off immediately: Your friend never talks to you or opens/responds to your messages again

Gradually distanced from: Your friend gradually distances themselves from you, sending shorter and shorter messages, taking longer to reply and using less warm tones when texting (including the lack of emojis)

Be honest. It’s not gorilla like but matches description above

My partner would say things like "you can come if your heart desires/you're more than welcome to join us if you're able to" to me the way they say things like that makes me think they don't want me to come over

I asked him if there was someone else the way he was acting so distant, and he said I was overthinking things. I want to trust him but my gut is going crazy that there is someone else. I am an anxious attachment so I can be wrong. lol He just got a new job assignment but the last time, he was communicating and this time he is just short.

By jelly I'm referring to the wobbly kind in the photos. Jelly has fallen out of fashion and it's been ages since I last had one, which was a sherry trifle about Christmas time. So when and what was your last jelly?

For you personally do you view men who are 181cm in height, tall? Or short? Or just normal?

It's just not bothering me to be depressed so I feel no need to be truthful when doing the test. I've been lying every few months now for the past 3 years now on these tests/screenings. Im tired of doing the tests but also tired of lying😅

Let me be clear, I was in the wrong for being so needy and anxious last week (like called every day at least twice) and so with his change at work this week and supervisor being on duty, he has a lot going on. So when I asked if HE wanted space until after his "possible promotion" this weekend, he responded with "if you think that will help you, then sure. if not just let me know because I am down with whatever works best for you!"

I am much better this week, I was asking for HIM. So how would you respond? React?

Three different guys want to take you out on a first date. Which of these offers do you accept?