Do you want kids?

[Anonymous]

And if you have kids do you wish you didn't have any kids?

I wish I didn't have my second child. It really altered my life and made me really depressed and unhappy.

No kids, I do not want kids

No, kids I want kids

I have kids, wish I didn't

I have kids, glad I have kids

[Brittanyroseee]

No i don’t, i don’t have an internal burning desire to have a baby. Never did. I don’t find them much appealing anyway. I would rather have some pets. A child is a huge lifelong commitment and responsibility in which i don’t want to participate in. The economy is horrendous and it is already a struggle for me to take care of myself why add another human life onto it?
I also lack patience and get frustrated and annoyed very easily. I get bored easily too so doing the same thing everyday would bore me.
I love sleeping.
Money is important to me.
I also prefer cleanliness in my home and not having to clean up after others. I will clean up after myself but not after kids and a husband. If i am married i don’t want a manchild as a husband. I want a husband who will participate in home duties and cooking.
I don’t mind my own company actually and i think having someone follow me around constantly and having to take them everywhere would piss me off.
I don’t like the idea of being “tied down” and children do tie you down because you have to build your entire life around them and change plans according to THEM.
I don’t want to be tied to the baby daddy for life and have that life tie connecting us because of a child.
Don’t want the burden of a kid if my partner left me.
This world is fucked, it is evil, and it will just get worse.
Kids are becoming sexualized.
Social media and society has a huge negative impact on children.
Children are their own individuals and will act out, have tantrums, aren’t “trainable” like how a dog, and many more animals are.
Children have the possibility of turning into horrible people. It doesn’t matter how you “raise them”. I will never believe in that because many people grow up in unfortunate situations and are amazing people meanwhile people brought up in wonderful circumstances still turn out “off”. It usually is actually due to mental disorders and illnesses. Genetics.
I don’t want to be pregnant for 9 months and go through giving birth. Im very sensitive to pain.
I don’t even care for sex much anyway. Not saying im “asexual” but i have had a past experience of SA and i don’t like intimacy.
People can leave at any given moment for WHATEVER reason and I simply don’t want the financial and emotional burden of the child from someone i had a relationship or marriage with. I don’t want that forever tie to that person.

[Asker]

I feel this completely which is why I'm shocked I'm a parent. But everything you said was the truth and valid! 💯

[Brittanyroseee]

Thank you! I wish society would understand this more and i also think women and men too are pressured into having kids and then they realize its not for them. It happens.

[EmmaMary]

We now have our two planned adorable and extremely precious children... Thank you.

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO.

[nolabels]

I didn't want kids, but he came along, anyway.
I've loved him from the beginning.
He's now 26 and is completely estranged from me due to some very serious recent circumstances.
My heart is broken, not only for myself, but I'll likely be gone soon, no, my heart hurts much worse for him, bearing so much pain as he is in.

I'm sorry for your heartache.

[Asker]

I'm so sorry as well. ❤️

[nolabels]

Thanks ❤️

[Berethor]

Kinda, I want not marry a woman who don't want to give me kids.

[HawkPerception]

I've always wanted kids of my own. I look forward to being a father as soon as I'm financially able and find the future love of my life.

[Apple1996]

Already have kids and very happy about that choice

[Pterodon]

I had one and no I wouldn’t do it again. Yes I do regret he was born. No I really don’t love him but I did pay my court ordered child support

[Brittanyroseee]

Wow honesty. Good job. Many more people need to be honest. This is what i try to explain to people who get mad at others for not wanting kids.. do they want unwanted kids to be born? Im assuming your child was an accident too which is unfortunate and you do have a right to your feelings just like women who use birth control and still get pregnant and see that kid as a burden. I get it. Even sterilizing isn’t 100% certain. There are many reports of women actually getting pregnant after a tubial ligament surgery. It is also very difficult for women to obtain those surgeries and vasectomies aren’t 100% either and i know this because i have a friend who’s boyfriend got a girl pregnant and he got a vasectomy years ago. Nothing is 100%

[Brittanyroseee]

at least you did help out but it is good you are honest and society needs to stop pressuring people to have kids they do not want. Its insanity.

[Pterodon]

@Brittanyroseee yes he was an accident. I married her thinking I was doing the honorable stand up thing but I never really bonded with him and the marriage was pure hell. It’s taken years of therapy to be ok with my feelings. I was always made to feel guilty and that I was a bad person for feeling that way. Not anymore. I know I’m in the extreme minority but I’m ok with that

[Brittanyroseee]

It happens and its unfortunate and you are valid for those feelings.

[avery58]

I don't have kids but definitely want them, hopefully not so far from now

[menina]

I would like to have kids but I know it's not going to happen anytime soon.

[Avicenna]

I have four of them, and would like to have a few more.

[Nicebutt462]

If you do, make sure it's with the right person or you are getting He'll and life in it.

[Kaneki05]

Kids aren't a benefit so why would I?

[sawno]

Only if the world becomes a better place.

[Pinkandgirly]

Go say that to the GAG Karen her user is Always Reckless I got into huge arguments with her on this website.

[Iron_Man]

Yeah but that’s not gonna happen anymore

[exitseven]

I have 3 of them. They are all grown up.

[Danny_dan92]

Yeah. But oh well

[Pinkandgirly]

You and reckles ended up getting divorced in pandemic?

A few years ago I saw that post I guess you're wife reckles found out andngot jelous.

Did the two of you divorce cut reckless didn't want kids?

[Danny_dan92]

We never dated lmao she just wanted to hate fuck me

[Pinkandgirly]

Wait a min , So the two of you never actually dated? I tough you two love birds actually dated?

She seem very upset at you lol

[Danny_dan92]

It only seemed that way cause she had a crush on me. And one day I asked about a lady at work being all flirty and mentioned how she wore a top showing off a lot of cleavage and I guess this triggered her. That was the first interaction we had.

Then later on down the line she confessed to me that she was just mad cause she wanted me to look at her titties. So then for the fun of it, I flirted with her.

[Pinkandgirly]

I tough at first the two of you some how found each other on this website ket in person and got married .

For a while I used to think you used to be reckless husband.

I guess I missed understood or missd read something. I tough poor guy what didnhebdo to deal with Karen.

Smoke was coming out of Karen's ears lol 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I flurt just for fun with guys as well.

[Danny_dan92]

Yeah she told me in a message she was mad at me cause she wanted me to look at her tits

[shortster]

Definitely