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I was watching Dark Side of the Ring and I got to Chris Benoit's episodes... For those who don't know, Chris Benoit was a wrestler for the WWE and he would go on to be one of the best wrestlers in the business.

In 2007, he ended up killing his wife, young son, and then himself. And after that happened, the WWE basically erased him from their history and nobody really talks about him anymore. Sometime after this happened, they did a study on his brain and it turned out that he had a severe case of CTE (brain damage) and people who were close to him say that he wasn't himself for months before he decided to do what he did.

I think it's safe to say that his brain damage played a huge part in this whole thing. And even still, people refuse to talk about him in a positive light because of the acts that he committed.

I was out drinking with a guy friend who I’ve known for a couple of years. We’re pretty flirty and I have a crush on him.

When we were out, someone said that they thought he was my boyfriend. Later on, I told a mutual friend that a stranger thought my crush was my boyfriend. My crush then said “I should be so lucky”.

Does he like me? Why would he say that?

To the women who will say, “I don’t care what men want” blah blah blah, well I do. This question is for the fellas.

I find most men want a career driven partner just so they don’t have to hold the weight and responsibility of being a man. Not saying this is all men, this is just what I see around me and have experienced.

I mean a real crush for at least 2 years on a person you only know from seeing but you know nothing about her, not even social media, never interacted, but you just can’t stop watching and discussing her with your friends. If you ever had that, what exactly made you fall for him/her?

for me around 28-31

if you're already married or never planning on, dont vote

We could have had Bernie who works for the people, instead we got a corporate democrat who's spineless and a corrupted, dictator wannabe fascist.

do you personally find lightskin girls attractive?

(girls like the one in the pics)

I met a client for a coffee chat in the hopes of a job referral.

1) We corresponded on LinkedIn and he was eager to help - gave his number (no one else had done that and sticked to corresponding on LinkedIn even to meet up)

2) Was v nice and ask me what worked best for me in terms of going up to their office to grab a room or a cafe nearby. Also gave time flexibility so I could ‘sneak out of work’

3) when we met up, he first came off as a bit guarded/ uncomfortable but then loosened up and teased / making jokes / leaning towards me

4) when we were parting ways, caught him looking at me up & down a couple times while we had small talk and he was smiling at everything I said. Paced himself to match me while we were heading out of the cafe and before we parted ways he said to send over my resume and asked if I had his work email and quickly said it. We’d previously met with my boss in a work setting - I’ve been looped in on emails and said my boss has it and will find it

he then insisted I take his business card when I’d already started to head off. Kinda surprised his brought his biz card given I already met him and had his LI / number

3) I texted next day to thank him and said I’ll send over my resume in a couple days’ after polishing it - he was v quick to respond and said to send it whenever I’m done and he’d forward it to hr and check up on the team itself that I’m applying to. I emailed it and he responded quickly again to acknowledge. Another position opened up a couple weeks later and I asked if he could refer and again was quick to respond / look into it

4) I didn’t progress and he said he will keep a lookout for roles that are better suited. I then said to stay in touch

There’s no other touch point in between that is personal but the subtext makes me wonder if there is something more? The business card and the niceness of it all - am I overreading?

and does the saying ‘if he wanted to, he would’ apply here?

Former GOP lawmaker Adam Kinzinger has revealed new details about Donald Trump’s alleged bad odor, claiming that he reeks of a combination of several unsavory scents. “It’s not good. The best way to describe it... take armpits, ketchup, a butt and makeup and put that all in a blender and bottle that as a cologne,” he said.

I bumped into a male friend on a night out. We’ve known each other for a couple of years and have a flirty relationship.

When I say drunk, I don’t mean stumbling everywhere and puking their guts up, he seemed pretty coherent and just more sociable if anything.

I, however, was a little more drunk. I admitted to him that I liked him as more than a friend. I asked him if he felt the same way. He kept saying “you’re a lovely person” and I eventually said “just answer the question”. He said yes and we kissed a bit.

Do you think he meant it? As I said, he didn’t seem overly drunk. Although he claims he “can’t remember” what happened.

I have been on several dates, which dinner being as high as £198 ($250), this was just for the first date and now dinner in London has gone up to an average to £60 ($76) for two people

Most dates, men have asked me out so I expect them to pay, and after a few dates I realise they aren't serious about me so
I stop talking to them, isn't this fair?

The way I see it, if a man asks a woman out, he pays especially if he is just wanting to fck about with her and is not serious

If a woman asks a man out, then she pays, isn't that how it works?

I’ve been with my boyfriend for about two years now…and I love him dearly, but I’m 21 and sometimes I just wished I had taken more time between dating him and my ex just to be single. Is that bad? There are just so many dos and do nots when you’re in a relationship and I respect him. But at the same time I never got to just be single and explore options. Part of me wants to take a break and just focus on me, but the other part doesn’t want to let go of what I have. Can anyone relate? What should I do?

Due to a terrible misunderstanding my crush mistook my shyness as a rejection which hurt him pretty badly even years later. I liked him all along and considered clearing the air with my crush and ask him out but my guy friend tried to talk me out of this idea since he thinks my crush would only see it as an opportunity to hurt me back for „rejecting“ him in the past. Do you think this is true? I think he could be right because he denied having feelings for me even after I admitted that I had a crush on him.