Destination wedding Vs Local wedding?

[RoseySarah]

Always surprised how many people have gotten married on the Titanic in a sub!

Destination

Local wedding

Vegas wedding

[OlderAndWiser]

It is very selfish to expect guests to spend thousands of dollars to travel to your wedding in an exotic locale. The first rule of being a social host is to always consider the convenience and comfort of your guests above your own selfish desires.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

I'm really pro local wedding since it makes it easiest for all our mutual friends to attend.

However, I did have a destination wedding in Hawaii with my wife. She just really loved the idea of having one there and romanticized it so much of getting married there, and I wanted to fulfill that fantasy of hers. She didn't demand it by the way. She's not one of those types; she even said it's perfectly fine if we have our wedding locally in Japan. Yet I wanted to make that dream of hers come true.

It was really beautiful, but did come with the downside that only half of our friends or so were able to make it (still a very healthy number of around 40 or so with our family members on top, but not our complete group).

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

To celebrate our marriage with our remaining friends, when we returned to Japan, our friends actually threw us a second party. It was just in a small space and a very modest one but we did get to enjoy this second party with our remaining friends. They even compiled a video of pictures of us together and selected music that they thought fit us and played it at this second party.

[DizzyDesii]

I’m fine with all 3 because either way, i’m only inviting about 10-20 from my side. Idgaf who wants to come, if they’re not on the list, they dont get in. Too many people attend weddings just for the food. I only want the people i actually care to see. And my wedding is a bit extravagantly elegant af but can be done for less than 20k if i keep the head count low.

[RoseySarah]

Ours was 30k and we. Kept it small

[KBird]

It honestly depends on who you want at your wedding. Most of my friends are here (who I will want at my wedding), and wouldn't be able to afford to fly or attend the destination. So I would do mine here, and then do a honeymoon destination after. But if I only wanted a couple people there, and I can afford to fly them out myself, then destination :)

[AviatorTom]

A wedding is best shared with friends and family. A local wedding makes that more possible. If the couple us seriously thinking about getting married at some non-local place, why not just elope?

[LazerBean]

If I only wanted a few people to come, then I would have considered a destination wedding. But we had a lot of people, so a local wedding was just better for us in every way.

[DJB72]

Local. When you get married, you marry under the law where the ceremony takes place.

[Anonymous]

A small wedding or a court house wedding…don’t need anymore fake people around me

[exitseven]

Yes, have a destination wedding. That way you can inconvenience all your friends and relatives so you can show off how cool you are.

[steveusna]

Who get's married today? Have you seen the plunge in marriage rates. Infidelity and divorce are at all time highs. Guys, don't succumb to the pressure to marry.

[Staximus]

Destination weddings are stupid and exclude everybody who can't afford to go on a vacation. With a local wedding you can be back to work the next day or go home the same night to take care of your kids.

[Mark987]

I have done local and destination. in my opinion destination is good because it weeds out some people who you had no choice to invite. I would personally do it local, more fun... the people who can't travel can come.

[Sameone]

I don't give fuck about wedding
Just find me the right women if she want wedding in hell i don't have problem

[BCA6010]

I'd make a decision based on the woman I'm marrying.

[douride2]

If it's not local I'm a no show. I'm not going.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I would like a Local Wedding.

[Dongie]

I'd marry those anywhere

[RoseySarah]

Marry those what?

[Dongie]

You know

[MsBrie]

If i am invited by a long time friend and i have the money to travel im going!

[soe11]

• You look stunning beautiful.
• Wedding totally no.

[MrDaveAPSI]

Why are you using an AI image in the question?

I don't want to marry. I think it's unnecessary!

[KittygosMeoWW]

Lmao that pic, if I were to get married one day it would be in the mountains by my home.

[CuriousMufuxka]

No wedding! Well ok ceremoniously I'd pick my backyard.

[laly520]

imma have mine local

[strateguy632]

stay near home