Both are pretty equal for me! The extravagant one is slightly more expensive but still doable for me! Everything else they both similarly permit.
The hotel allows the bride and a groom a complimentary night & breakfast stay-over accommodation, but the other one is more gorgeous and spacious, I think.
I'm asking for EITHER the perspective of where you'd prefer to marry OR which wedding you'd prefer to attend - I don't mind.
Please help!