Polls

This was her when she was 16 vs her now at 30.

Is this a bad idea or good idea? I’m pretty sure I don’t have a chance with him anyway, and I doubt he likes me back. but I am started to be attracted to someone else.

I'm sure there are plenty of you who don't play any games but there are definitely games being played to win over the other party.

I'm basically asking if there are more girls understanding about the games that guys play or the other way around?

Who would you invite to the date? Me (5'11) or my friend on the left (5'5)?

I remember a song from about 20 or so years ago called, "Let's Get Retarded", by the Black Eyed Peas. For reasons unknown it was displaced by "Let's Get It Started", which doesn't make as much sense, because what is it that they want to get started? If I'm not mistaken, to "get retarded" is basically to get drunk.

So I know this guy who chased a woman for like 2 years. They went out once ig and it didn't work out (its been a year since they went out and like 3 years since he started liking her) . She is single even now but the guy who approached her first is now dating another woman. His friends keep mentioning to the single girl that he had not actually stopped hoping something would happen between them, and the guy is constantlyflirting with her. What makes someone act like this?

If an aggressive animal or monster was heading towards your child's direction, would you get in between? This means accepting you're literally dead meat. 100% chance your child is saved but 80-90% chance you'll die. If you survive you're going to suffer serious injuries.

Meanwhile your child is safe (as the animal or monster got distracted by you, going after you instead) and ran to safety, you're either badly injured, mauled to death or devoured. If you're a grandparent, same... would you do that for your grandchild?

I'm supposed to go out for a beer or two with some of my co-fighters from the muay thai gym I have been recently training at.
It is in our usual restaurant/pub (it's too fancy to be a pub but not that special to be a high class restaurant).
It's on Friday.

I plan on wearing something simple yet cute - possibly a blue cropped cardigan, light wash jeans (they suit my butt best) and black boots. I'll do my winged eyeliner and probably add my raspberry shade lipstick (my favorite, it also smells just wonderful).

I feel like wavy hair would make the outfit and my whole look more special, but please share what you think.

From old pictures, the people there usually dressed in tees, hoodies, few shirts here and there...

I recently met this guy. Seems pretty nice. He has similar interests. Unfortunately, lives a couple of hours away but he wants to eventually move closer to where I live (he lives in the middle of nowhere, I live in a major city, and he's been wanting to move to the major city before meeting me). So I'm okay with the distance...

Then I caught on, he doesn't have a job. He hasn't had a job in four months because apparently, his last job scammed him. He's currently looking for one that pays him well so he can move. I had asked him what about a part-time job until he finds one, and he said he rather not.

He has an associate with computers and was working IT but felt like a drone. I'm kind of at a conflict with myself because it doesn't make sense to only have a 2-year degree expecting to be making salary money while being completely unemployed and a past of him not being able to keep jobs because he simply doesn't like them.

I like this guy but if he's going to be someone who doesn't get a job or at least some kind of income I don't see a stable future with him. But I want others' opinions to make sure.

I'm not worried about him mooching off of me as I'm someone who was raised not to do that (and seen from other's experiences of how poorly it ends).