Is dating easier for tall or short girls?

[Viola_456]

Who would you invite to the date? Me (5'11) or my friend on the left (5'5)?

Easier for tall girls

Easier for short girls

Height doesn't matter

[Anonymous]

Honestly I think height does matter to a lot of people. Not just females but to males as well. I think a lot of males are ok w her being as tall as him, but usually not taller. Because whether he admits it or not it does make him feel less of a man. Usually men are bigger, stronger, etc. We look at ourselves as protectors of our women. I think it’s just an instinctual thing. The same w women who usually prefer a man who is taller. They want to feel protected. Like he can pick her up in his arms, carry her. I tend to think shorter women have a better chance of meeting a man. Because again for one a lot of women want someone taller, stronger, bigger. Men tend to want the opposite because he can feel like her hero, bigger, stronger, her knight in shining armor. But if I was choosing between you or your friend I’d go w you. You’re cuter. If I’m being honest the one thing I like about taller women is when it comes to sex, when she’s taller you don’t have to bend down so much like you do w shorter women when you’re taking her from behind standing.

[cheeky_starfish]

Height means very little to me in terms of physical attraction. I can be equally attracted to both short and tall girls. Both you and your friend are very attractive, so I guess it would come down to personality, character and general compatibility for which I would choose to date. If you’re worried about your height being an attraction issue for guys, it’s really not! I hope that helps you 🙂

[Viola_456]

Well it is for many guys 😅 luckily there are guys like you with good priorities❤️

[cheeky_starfish]

That surprises me, but I guess people have different preferences. Height is not one for me. Yes, personality etc is equally if not more important for a lasting relationship, so that matters more to me. Just be the best version of yourself you can be and don’t worry so much about who is or is not attracted to your height - the right guy for you will be! 😊

[Nick_Halden]

Priorities: I want a tall woman so I can have Spartan sons hahaha.

[Nick_Halden]

Forgot to link you @Viola_456 ^^

[4ngelic]

5'5 isn't short, that's average. though anyways would say it's easier for shorter than taller women. because guys tend to want the girl to be shorter than them

[wiltingrosepetal]

Easier for short girls. I've been rejected for my height more than once 🧍‍♀️

[Viola_456]

How tall are you?

[wiltingrosepetal]

5'11, same as you. I find I'm taller than 60-70% of guys on dating apps... somehow 💀

[Viola_456]

Yeah its true we are definetly taller than most in every region i think 😅 have you ever dated someone shorter than you?

[wiltingrosepetal]

Yeah, I've only dated one guy before. We've got kinda an on-again-off-again thing, but we first dated in year 8 when he was much shorter than me. Now he's just over 6ft lol

[Viola_456]

Just dont worry you're gonna find the right guy ❤️

[Avicenna]

Might be easier for the tall ones. Those of us who prefer them have an especially strong preference for them.

[Anonymous]

It shouldn't matter. Because if women realized how little a woman's height mattered to the vast majority of guys she wouldn't give it a second thought.

However since it's been my experience women would rather be smaller rather than bigger I'd say taller women have it harder than smaller. Which I've never understood since most SUPERMODELS tend to be taller. It's also been my experience that most short women tend to be much more aggressive than thier taller counterparts. And the taller women tend to be more standoffish. Which is the actual more accurate reason it's been my experience that shorter women are more successful. Closed mouths don't get fed. But as with anything the bad also comes with the good. Because It's also been my experience that the shorter women tend to be most MANIPULATIVE and Distrustful.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

I don't know who has it easier but if I was hypothetically single and could choose and both willing, I'm definitely going with the tall woman trained in BJJ. That just sounds totally awesome and badass. I'd want to learn BJJ too although I'd be at a beginner level and maybe she can teach me a bit and we can train together.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

The way I always saw it with very formidable women who can best take care of themselves is that it's a bonus since, if I'm not around or dead and I love a woman, I want her to be able to take care of herself and not be helpless without me. So it's a total bonus to me if a woman is strong, able to defend herself, earns a living, mentally tough, etc, because if I love her I don't want to see her hurt, and I can't be around 24/7.

[Viola_456]

Thanks for such a nice words ❤️ i would love to have a boyfriend beginner at bjj it would be fun 😂

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

Cheers! My wife has some Judo training which I always liked.

Sometimes people make this about dom/sub type of thing like the guy must be taller than the woman and be physically dominant over her, but to me if we're striving to be the types of leaders who take care of others, then we want them to have leadership skills too. Like a squad leader would want followers who are also leaders and very tough in their own right, since they are to replace him/her if he/she dies.

So to me the idea that doms only match with subs doesn't make sense unless someone is the type of dom that just wants power over others. If we are instead motivated by a desire to protect others, then it's a bonus if those others are also capable of protecting themselves even if we are to be the leaders.

[Viola_456]

I like your point of view ❤️ But most guys just prefer small weak girls couse they dont want feel emasculated. Most can't even think about a girl that could be able to overpower them...

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

That just always seemed weird to me. Like would they only make friends with guys who are the same height or shorter, or physically weaker? Since that should emasculating the same way to not be the tallest or strongest guy in a friend group, e. g.

I think the idea of masculinity and also this idea of "alpha" these days is a bit off, like it wasn't typically the biggest and strongest brute who became chieftain of a tribe. It was typically the wisest, the diplomatic, the one who kept the tribe out of needless conflicts, and most of all, the one who made the well-being of the tribe his personal responsibility. Above all else, the leader as I see it is defined by his/her willingness to take ultimate responsibility over other people's well-being.

[Viola_456]

They dont care about other guys ussualy but can't stand a strong woman... I hate that stigma there is more and more girls that train and are stronger than some guys. Luckily we have guys like you that dont care ☺️

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

I actually care, like I think that's good. 🤝 It's a bonus to me. It's probably my one major physical bias is that I do prefer women who are strong and able to defend themselves. That and I also always favored women with very expressive faces and body language, since it makes it easier to understand how they feel and aids in communication.

[Viola_456]

Thats me in both things i have veru strong body language 😅 how tall are you?

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

I rely very heavily on body language. I actually like emojis even though some people think they're childish. 😁 I find it very difficult to communicate and read emotions over text without them! As for my height, I'm pretty short at 173cm (5'8). I'm slightly taller than most Japanese of my generation, but I feel pretty short when I go to other countries.

[Viola_456]

Oh you're japanese 😅 now i understand why you seem so smart 😂❤️

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

I'm half on my father's side; maybe half-smart. 😅 My mother is American.

I was thinking a bit about body language and I think one of the reasons I like expressive body language so much is that I grew up in a variety of countries (starting in Japan, but later Singapore, Hong Kong, and then various parts of the US). While trying to adapt to all these new countries and cultures and learn the languages, I came to rely very heavily on observing people's body language to help me at least figure out how they feel even if I might not understand half the words they said.

But also I think it's just more fun to talk to expressive and enthusiastic people. Like a great teacher in my view is not someone who looks and sounds like a robot with a very monotone voice. It's someone speaks very enthusiastic with animated body language. Their enthusiasm rubs off on me and I get excited learning about the subject.

[Viola_456]

Yeah i agree i Also love such people 😅 hope you're one if them

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

I try to be. I tend to talk with my hands all the time, like this:

I have to do video meetings sometimes with my colleagues and I end up talking with my hands so much that I end up bumping the camera. 😁

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

I taught CompSci 101 & 102 in university just as a TA (but the professor just showed up a few times per semester). Initially I was boring the students to death since I was kind of robotic. Then I just started trying to practice and observe the most speakers and tried to mimic them a bit to help keep the students interested and not dozing off. 😅

[zeitgeist057]

ok, now I'm really curious what your shirt says?

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

@zeitgeist057 "My Stomach Clock Went Off". 😁 My wife got me that shirt as a silly one.

[RebelinSteel]

Height is one of those things that the vast majority of people really don’t care about. People date those they like not their height, hair colour, eye colour, skin colour etc. a lot of the time you do not even realise a girls height as you are sitting in a club or pub chatting n flirting and it’s only when you both go to leave you realise each other have legs or if you decide to dance.

[superchan2011]

To me it really doesn't matter about if a girl is taller than me or shorter. Just as long as they have a good personality I'm good and would give them a chance. You are already very attractive and you seem like you have a cool personality so you can get a date regardless of your height.

[Yannae]

I think it's easier for short, but that means I have more tall girls to myself.

[Viola_456]

So you prefer taller girls than you?

[Yannae]

Just a tall girl, mine just happens to be taller.

[Viola_456]

Whats your and her height?

[Yannae]

I am around 5'10 and she is around 6

[Viola_456]

Oh thats cool ☺️ are okay when she's wearing heels arround you?

[Yannae]

I don't mind at all. This may be stupid and it probably is 😳 but I always thought of it as a trophy fish. Like I caught the rare trophy fish. Another thing is that I love women and a tall woman is "More woman" to love. Not that she's more or less feminine than a shorter girl, but a short girl is cute. A tall girl is just the bigger version, just as beautiful, same feminine curves, but a bigger version of it.

[Viola_456]

Happy to hear that someone loves tall girls ❤️

[Viola_456]

And no its not stupid 😅

[Yannae]

It's the bigger version of cute xD

[Yannae]

And if she checks all the other boxes personality wise. OOH None can compete

[Wiredone]

It doesn't matter about Height. I think tall and short women have a hard time dating. I'm sure even guys have a hard time.

I've never chosen a woman by her Height. I've gone by eyes and smile first. That is what would make me approach a woman.

[OtterMan68]

Depends. I'd say a women over 6'3 and women under 4'10 would both have a harder time than women between those two extremes.

Case in point. I think this young lady is very attractive, but many men would not date her would you date a woman who is 6'9?

[patrick994]

For me height has no relevance, a woman has to please me as a whole, but if I am honest I have always had a preference for tall, physically strong women like you.

I would choose you to be honest.

[Viola_456]

Thank you ❤️

[Sam12348]

Both are fine but not too short. So I'll say not your friend

[Sam12348]

I hope she's fine with you posting her picture online

[Viola_456]

Ofc she is 😂😂 i asked her about it

[Sam12348]

Cool! 😂

[Mediterraneansoul]

As long as the common sense matches the height 😂

[BadApple69]

I believe it’s easier for short girls. Some guys are intimidated by tall girls, but no guy is intimidated by short girls.

[Viola_456]

Yeah true...

[pergamon300]

Girl on the right clearly better looking, but maybe just a touch too tall for me. I'm 5'11, but if a girl that's 5'11 wears heels, forget about it lol. I'll look too short for her. .

[Anonymous]

You are both too young for me.

For women my age I'd say height doesn't really matter.

[Viola_456]

you're not that old you really woudnt date a younger girl? 😅

[Opinion Owner]

Not a 19 year old

[Miristheiss]

I couldn't care less how tall a girl is. As long as she has a nice face, cute figure, character, moral compass I mesh with I'd be equally attracted to a 4'10" girl or a 6'5" girl.

[firenine909]

I’d probably date you because you’re really gorgeous and hot. Hold your hand, even if you’re a tall girl I’d love to make you feel girly still

[Viola_456]

Thank you ❤️ but its hard to make me feel girly 😅

[firenine909]

Aww no worries. I wouldn’t mind doing something sweet like cuddling with you. As long as you feel real happy I’d be more than glad to take you out

[dudeinohio]

I'm tall, so. tall women don't bother me. In fact if a woman was taller than me, I'd still. date her.

[Kaneki05]

Tall is obviously easier simple logistics, if both try to kiss the closer to the same height parrel the easier it is.

[ChicoFromThe305]

I think shorter got it easier cause men expect that from a woman, unexpected height can take more time to adjust too unless someone specifically aims for tall women, it's all subjective tho of course

[DryGermanGuy]

The giraffe needs a spanking. She looks like a naughty girl. 😂

[Viola_456]

You would get slapped irl for calling me giraffe so dont even think about some spanking 😒

[DryGermanGuy]

No, I highly doubt that. 😉

[Viola_456]

Why?