Should I tell the guy I’ve fancied for ages that I fancy someone else now and want advice?

[KezHarris]

Is this a bad idea or good idea? I’m pretty sure I don’t have a chance with him anyway, and I doubt he likes me back. but I am started to be attracted to someone else.

Yes, tell him that

No, don’t

[Anonymous]

If you aren't sure about his feelings, ask him. I'm sure he would have some feelings towards you. You should not love everything that attracts you. It makes you look cheap. Stay committed to one guy and see how great it looks in public. You swiping to different persons based on your horny feelings would make you look like a characterless girl. Don't be in such a position where everyone looks at you as such. Be a great girl to one guy not many guys. If the first guy rejects you, then think about the second guy but don't think of the second guy simply because you lost feelings on first guy or if you are bored

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

If he doesn't fancy you, maybe he's shy, but if you gave him too many chances, I would say move on.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Thanks for Mho :)

[Billlewis]

If he's not pursuing you, I wouldn't bother telling him.

[KezHarris]

But then if he’s not pursuing me and I’m friends with him… then I could ask him for advice about another guy?

[Billlewis]

Of course you can. In fact, he'll probably be flattered if you ask him for his opinion about various subjects.

[bowenw]

If he doesn't even like you, you don't have to say anything to him.

[OtterMan68]

There's no one else you could solicit advice from?

[handsomelad70]

If you handle it with poise and aplomb, yes.

[dolemite58]

Why would u go to him for advice like he’s one of your girl friends?

[NathanDavis]

ask him out already!

[Levin]

Is the aged cuck that you're referring to?

[jahaims]

What is the point in telling him?

[FenixG45]

No, it serves ZERO purpose. MOVE ON!

[eagle1951]

sure