Polls

I am a woman who is 5’10” and I hardly get approached by men but men do check me out. When I realized this, it made me wonder if it’s my height that intimidate them. I’ve been told by several men that I’m like a 7 or 8 out of 10 so I’m certain that them not approaching me has nothing to do with my looks.

Just curious. Feel free to explain

Imagine that they both make you feel good, they admit that they love you, they have been honest, they don't show red flags aside from if you consider the partner history red flags, and they're equally physically attractive. Which one would you rather go for?

5 long term relationships but cheated on 2 of them or someone who never committed to a long term relationship but has been physically intimate with 30 partners

If you really think they're both equally great, select C. Otherwise, please choose.

Feel free to explain as well

if they messaged you out of the blue

I have a crush on one of my colleagues. We flirt like crazy and we are close. Would you consider this jealous behaviour?

- I was telling my manager that I was going out on a date. In the corner of my eye, I saw him look over in my direction. When I said “have a nice weekend”, he just said “bye” abruptly whereas he would normally say “you too”

- I was putting some lip balm on and he joked saying, “putting makeup on for the new guy?”

- When I got a lift to work from another guy, because of bad weather - he called me a “wimp”. The next day I asked him for some help and he responded with “why don’t you ask (name of guy who gave me a lift to work)?”

- When I’m laughing and joking with a male colleague, he goes quiet and doesn’t really interact

- He was offering me a lift to the staff do and I politely declined because someone else was talking me. He then asked me if I didn’t trust his driving

- I was chatting to a male colleague and he interrupted us saying “what are you two jabbering about”

- I pulled some fluff out of a male colleagues hair, the guy in question said “you just wanted to touch his hair”

Or do men not think much of it if someone fancies them?

During some conversations he starts fidgeting or rubbing his arms nervously… but only sometimes. And a few months ago he saw me in person and got very nervous and started shaking. Other than that… the only other sign of attraction I’ve noticed is that he mirrors me quite a bit… picking up his coffee cup to take a sip when I do it…. Not sure if he’s naturally an awkward man or whether he’s attracted? But in groups of people he doesn’t seem awkward and looks more relaxed… so maybe I have an effect on him? But he also hasn’t made a move on me. Maybe he feels awkward because someone told him I like him? I dunno. Also another thing to note is that I’m more conventionally attractive than he is, so maybe he’s intimidated? I’m not sure. Also his face looks a bit red around me sometimes but I can’t tell whether he’s flushed for another reason or it’s just lighting etc.

Does intelligence really matter to a guy when it comes to dating? If a women is smarter than you, is it off putting? From the people I meet, I realised that smart women are more likely to be single than other women. Is it because they are more selective or is it because men don't want them as much? I feel that successful men are more likely to go for housewives rather than high achieving women.

And claims to be a certain cute girl from college you have seen in quite a few lectures asking you if you're about to graduate soon? How would you react and why? (If it matters, she got your number through a common whatsapp group of a big course at college you both attended).

For instance with status symbols, charm, intellect, confidence etc.

His friend told me that he was really into me for years. He would sneak glances when I was distracted but never found the courage to come up and talk to me. Months later he met a girl in a lecture in college (which I also attended) that started flirting with him and he confidently flirted back. From then on he started dressing nicer to this lecture. Why didn’t he ever put in the effort for me if he had a crush on me for years?

As adults we try to protect kids innocents but as teens we want to lose it.

Ever felt there was a moment when it was suddenly gone? Was it during dating or at another time

Innocents is not just virginity!