Lost of Innocents? When dating did you ever feel that you lost it or took it?

[RoseySarah]

As adults we try to protect kids innocents but as teens we want to lose it.

Ever felt there was a moment when it was suddenly gone? Was it during dating or at another time

Innocents is not just virginity!

Lost it in school

Lost it while dating

Gave it away as soon as possible

Kept it for latter

Still have it

Ex took it

[MemeSupreme]

i think we lose innocence when we're teenagers bc that's when guys start acting like horndogs

like being 14 and seeing some kid jerk off in class or when some boy you're not dating tries to finger you on the bus... your eyes get opened up a little bit lol

[RoseySarah]

Or when your 12 and your chest is the biggest on class and every one throws things at it.

[Anonymous]

I never thought that way myself. Kids needs guidence, advice and help to avoid going places they wouldn't be able to deal with or handle. Then need protection from the schemes of older people who would use their superior knowledge to do them wrong. So I never thought in terms of myself being innocent or not. Though in the spirit of how its likely taken, I value the number of years where my parents allowed me not to need to understand the cruler parts of life. Innocence should be lost, it should be left behind when a person is ready to deal with more.

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

I think most individuals retain innocence in some aspect of their life, whether be through naivety about world events happening around them, or making the choice to not model their behavior after those around them. We all try to retain a little bit somewhere in our soul/mind.
Physical innocence can be lost when a girl or boy realizes that there is a certain attraction to another individual or realizing when another individual wants more than friendship.

[purplepoppy]

I understand what your saying, just because a girls a virgin doesn't make her innocent but where do you cross the line? The first touch? Impure thought? Blow job? For me I think it's when you engage in any sexual act involving someone else beyond just a kiss. For me it was intercrural in my teen years.

[Lliam]

I eagerly lost mine with my first girlfriend when I was 16. It was finally a dream come true.
She had been in one, short-lived relationship before we met. She had also had a pregnancy scare so was on the pill. We went raw and it was heavenly.

[HelpfulWoman]

"innocence" is the spelling you want :)
er, lost it with my mum, sort of around 14/15 when I realised that "Huh, that's NOT how families behave"

[RoseySarah]

Ty sorry 😔 might have to ask a new question!
But also it helps gag not just shove it in sexuality

[RoseySarah]

Sorry that happened my mom was awful too

[PeachyPie93]

I tried to keep my innocence for a long time. I feel I still have some but maybe it is just my naivety that makes me think that way.

[RoseySarah]

Keep any you want to!

[kareenakapur]

im still a virgin "technically" but i think i lost my innocence when my ex boyfriend stuffed his dick in my mouth without consent think I was like 21. for some reason kissing making out always felt innocent.

[razelove]

For me I think I think it's a toss-up of the nights spent with my 19 yo study buddy when I was 14, or when I got my first STD from a cheating girlfriend when I was 16.

Generally let's just say it was the school spirit. Granted it did put me in a very good place for dating when I was out in the real world though. No BS to put up with, and no users as I'd walk the minute things felt off. Maybe that has less to do with innocence than being completely jaded though.

[82lynx]

Still have the sexual innocence; most of the rest of it was thrashed out of me. I’ve reclaimed a lot of it in recent years; I would fall apart if I didn’t keep it up. I just gave it a booster shot by returning to my first school as a volunteer, my first day being yesterday. It’s hard to beat being naive along with a bunch of 5 and 6 year olds.

[9in_Serpent]

its honestly all conservative religious propaganda/beliefs. Because we are told we are special growing up and watch Disney and Hollywood movies selling us this romanticized idea of love and virginity we grow up believing it only to get very hurt later on when we find out its not true. And some people get hurt so bad and are so shocked by the truth that they commit suicide. And that right there is sadder than any love story you will see in book or movie that ended a young person's life.

[RoseySarah]

Some one is just bitter
Love how you left out arranged marriages

[9in_Serpent]

If your relationship or relationships have all worked out that's great! more power to you! :) but don't forget not everyone is going to have the same experience as you and just because the love fantasy worked out for you does not mean it is for everyone.

Also what about arranged marriages? and are you also saying you support such old barbaric traditions like these?

[andreasderjuengere]

According to the preachers we are born in sin. How can someone then be "innocent"?
In a non-religious context, I'd say that "innocence" is merely an abstract romantic concept.
Once we are aware about stuff, innocence will already have left the scene.
Therefore: I lost mine some time around 8 years old. Just so.

[JayBones]

I was violently child molested at 6 years old by my 1st grade teacher. I lost my innocence so long ago I don't even understand the concept. She died of cervical cancer a few years ago. I pissed on her grave but it didn't fix anything. I actually felt bad for the people that loved her and were feeling pain. I'm such a fuckimg idiot

[douride2]

I never lost my innocents. It was brutally stolen from me with extreme force by someone I thought was my friend.

[RoseySarah]

Sorry so sad it happens my brother lost his like that!

[Mr_twoface]

Yes, very sorry to hear about your incident. Hopefully you've recovered from it.

[Mr_twoface]

The word "Forbidden" was my weakness and when it was implied in my household, I took it to another level. Lost my virginity at the age of 12 but my innocence long before that.

[Nikki1989]

I think mine was probably gone long before I was dating.

[RoseySarah]

Why long gone? Care to share?

[Becky316]

I lost mine in 9th grade. Been devious since then.

[RoseySarah]

The internet get it or?

[SotiCoto]

Why are featured questions almost always vapid dross?
The "question" doesn't even parse. It is nonsense.

And "Innocence" is just a euphemism for Ignorance. They both mean not knowing things. But apparently we've got to have a separate word for when not knowing things is deemed good and another for when not knowing things is seemed bad.
I never forget that they're the same though.
And I strive to be less innocent all the time.

[RoseySarah]

Called head lines and guess you never read an article in your life. Even online they suck and rarely are about the article!

All about instant attention no one cares

[laly520]

none can take away my innocence but myself

[CVNT5]

kinky💕

[laly520]

how its kinky

[CVNT5]

u just said u touch yourself🤤💕

[laly520]

never mentioned that

[CVNT5]

aight 🅱️et

[DollyLores]

*Loss of innocence. Is anyone on this website literate?

[RoseySarah]

Already said why lmao! 🤣

[AngryCarl]

My innocence was kicked and beaten out of me at school.

[elizamichale1]

Yea during school

[RoseySarah]

During sex ed?

[elizamichale1]

Yea that n also i was so brutally bullied because at the time i had very small tits... n all tht took it away from me

[RoseySarah]

So sorry bullies are the worst! I had it the other way! Bullied and had stuff always thrown at me!

[elizamichale1]

Yes i agree 100% n for me it was even worst coz my own brotbers also joined the bullies to abuse me.
How did u cope with it

[Likes2drive]

Lost it after dating and having sex

[RingOfFire]

Mama Mia that picture should be banned on all continents! 😱

[RoseySarah]

Why not that hot?

[RingOfFire]

https://i.imgur.com/761EJn6.png

[myloveforuisinfinte]

I don't know tbh

[NathanDavis]

I was never innocent...

[Anonymous]

I still have it