Have you ever Dated a handful of people at once and regretted it ?

[Finchie40]

I did this once when I was younger , after I got out of a long relationship with my one ex that cheated on me , mainly because I didn’t want a relationship anymore at that time and I was over having my heart shit on by selfish girls , so I was just having fun and hooking up with different girls’, not having a care in the world , yes I ended up sleeping with a few but I was honest with them that I wasn’t ready to settle down what so ever, but they still threw themselves at me to the point I realized I was juggling like 6 girls at once and trying not to hurt their feelings whatsoever or mislead them , to the point I basically had to to get them to stop blowing my phone up, , that’s pretty much when I realized I was wrong for what I was doing , and never did it again ever since my early 20’s , but now that I am older and divorced from another cheating girl, I am meeting girls that are pretty much doing what I did to them when I was in my 20’s? Is this a common thing?

[jennifer_bloom]

I believe in karma cause I know two girls that played with men’s hearts and got chased by dangerous and violent guys who pretended to be normal. If the girls had married these men, they would not know they were married to psychopaths until maybe 1-3 years later.

[exitseven]

I had a year after I broke up with my girlfriend and sort of went off the rails a little. I dated a couple of different girls t the same time. Once I went out with both of them on the same day. I really don't regret it because I was not really in real relationship with either of them. I acknowledge that I was sort of s jerk though.

[Finchie40]

Yea I did the same shit when my girlfriend at the time cheated on me , I pretty much went off the deep end and didn’t give 2 shits about relationships anymore , it pretty much only happened when I hit my heart shit on i just went off the deep end without a care in the world , at that time I just wanted to stay single and fool around and have fun , so I pretty much juggled 6 girls at once even though I was honest with all of them that I didn’t want a relationship, I just wasn’t honest about dating all of them at the same time , I didn’t think I was wrong because I wasn’t committed to any of them , so those girls’ pretty much thought they could get me to change my mind , because they kept coming back for more and more , by calling me and trying to make plans with me , it eventually hit me that I was being kind of an asshole and I felt bad that I was playing with their hearts in a sense , I did have sex with a few of them and I banged a few of them , in the same day , so that’s when it really hit me that I was being a selfish asshole, plus I was young and dumb and full of cum at that time as well and honestly I consider it a learning experience , cuz I am so not that way anymore even being single I don’t have sex with more than 1 girl. I look back at myself when I was younger and think damn only if I knew what I knew now compared to back then , things would of probably been a lot different

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO😎

[KrakenAttackin]

I could never imagine dating more than one girl at a time.

[DizzyDesii]

I can date/“talk to” multiple guys at once. I just can’t bring myself to get physical with them all. When I feel like I’m ready to be physical with someone, its likely because thats the one person I love, so then everyone else gets cut off. I’ve only regretted some of my final choices

[Finchie40]

Yup kind of the same shit I deal with

[caitycat21]

I’ve only ever dated one person but it was online so I don't know if it counts as a real relationship and they ended up emotionally cheating on me. I feel like a loser since most people my age seem to be in a relationship and I’m just forever single and feel really unlovable.


I want to have a real relationship and not just something casual but no one’s ever clear with their true intentions anymore

[Finchie40]

Why it’s best to not rush anything with anyone until you really get to know someone because sadly a lot of people do lie and you are correct we never truly know someone’s intentions so it’s best to play your cards the best you can

[purplepoppy]

No that's frowned upon in my country. You date one guy at a time. It's ok to sleep around but if you're dating then you only date one guy or you're a slut.

[ItsChloe1999]

I don’t date, I only hook up. I’ve hooked up with 4 different guys in the same night and didn’t feel regret at all.

[Finchie40]

Cuz you are a naughty girl 😋

[ItsChloe1999]

Damn right I am

[Finchie40]

Very beautiful as well

[ItsChloe1999]

Thanks

[Finchie40]

Inbox me

[Nikki1989]

No, not at all. My dating days were full of fun.

[Billlewis]

No, but I've served women who have.

[MissBoogus]

I have a boyfriend and girlfriend