What should I do if I love bad boys?

[Anonymous]

I don't know why but i keep falling for toxic men's. What is solution to only fall for nice guys?

[Med_guy1978]

Okay, you are possibly quite cute and get a lot of attraction from guys so it kinda boosts your ego. Then you come across a guy who is out for the count or revenge or he is sexually fulfilled and doesn't pay attention. You wonder why they all look and desire you but this guy doesn't pay you attention. You drop your guard and go for the challenge and he turns out to be an opportunist and leads the stream to his mill and moulds the clay to his will. If you understand what I'm trying to say is it's quite psychological so open your eyes and observe and give the interested a chance rather then wait for the opportunist. Better the sparrow in your palm then the pigeon up the tree. You'd be surprised, there are some diamonds in the rough who you would fall in love with.

[TommyMountainFigure]

You could just look for bad boys who draw the line at mistreating women, specifically you!

I've dated women in my past who loved the idea of being with me because I took no crap from anyone, and yet still treated them like they were all that mattered to me!

[Serkee]

The first thing you should do is figure out why you're attracted to bad guys. Is it because they're more forward, and display their attraction to you more openly? Or is it because they seem more "in charge" when they treat people poorly? Are they easier to be with because they'll make your decisions for you?

[Serkee]

Once you know what you're attracted to about bad guys, you can start to look for those specific traits in better guys who'll use those traits for your benefit instead of theirs.

[Zenpanda]

Learn to value yourself so you know your worth. If a man doesn't add to that worth or even devalues it, he's not good for you. A man should appreciate you for whom you are.

[ProbablyClueless]

You have to take some time to reflect and figure out why your brain associates excitement and chaos with love.

[CriticalCatDad]

Maybe not consider all men the same due to your own poor decision making choices?

[Anonymous]

All you can do is work against your natural inclinations. You were raised with poor decision making, likely determined by your lack of strong male role models.

[Anonymous]

https://www.youtube.com/embed/2Q3dGZPguSM

Watcha want!

[ravagesavage]

Because you Dad never loved you

[Twalli]

Change your preferences

[Danael31]

Ask yourself, not us.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Enjoy it!