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which lipstick era is prettier guys?

Yes men can hate men and women can hate women and its weird that that they hate thier own gender and they are one of them...

Out of the many infidelity stories I've read, that one that realized still being hurt and cheated in revenge makes me feel some sympathy for them.

What if they started as a decent, good and innocent person that would've never cheated if they didn't get hurt that badly? Unlike the selfish cheater, they cheated out of excruciating emotional agony and anger.

What do you think? Would you feel some compassion/sympathy for them?

for me can be anything from a couple times a week to every couple of months

He is 27 and I’m 30. We work together in a small team and have worked together for just over two years now. I believe we have a flirty relationship. He is nice to everyone and always jokes/has a laugh with everyone, so it would be difficult to know whether he was into me. Examples of his flirting include:

- We have a lot of eye contact. Sometimes I will catch him staring at me or the eye contact will be very prolonged. Haven’t noticed the pupil dilation at all.

- He does silly things just to get my attention. He will grab my hair clip, press something on my keyboard or touch my chair.

- On a night out, someone thought he was my husband for some reason, and he said “I should be so lucky”

- Outside of work he is very “huggy” but won’t touch me at work

- He laughs at silly things I do and calls me “daftie” occasionally

- I was stressing about an upcoming event because I was having my hair and makeup done. He asked me why I was having someone else do it and I said “because I want to look beautiful”, to which he said “why don’t you just do it yourself”

- sometimes I will see him look at my boobs

- he sometimes gets a little jealous I think. When another man gave me a lift into work, he called me a “wimp” and when I asked for help on something, he said “why don’t you get “other guy” to help you”

Let's say you were in a relationship or marriage. Then it became toxic suddenly.

Scenerio: Ok so the woman doesn't abort your child. However, she tells you that she'll leave you and will give up the baby after giving birth unless you want the baby but that means you'll be a single father. She tells you "I don't want nor care about the baby, I'm leaving".

Would you accept being a single father if the woman doesn't want nor cares for your baby?

What brings you greater personal fulfillment: raising a child or exploring the world?

I haven't been to places I'd like to go. Do you think we should find a partner with the same goal? Or it's not that important.

We have these meetings and a colleague of mine is made fun of by the boss and another old guy. Is he going to get fired? He hasn’t so far and we get bonuses in February. If you get fired you don’t qualify for one.

So to me it’s not a big deal because people typically spend a couple of hours together once a week when they date, and in this case rather than say three hours once a week you can spend 3-12 hours for one day a month. The numbers can be basically the same but I know frequency can be important to some people.

Now when I say once a month, I don’t mean that you can only strictly spend time together once a month, just that the intentional time spending would be once a month and then if you run into each other at other times, that’s fine.

I see mixed opinions on this; obviously, there won't be the same answer for everyone. But if your girlfriend or wife bought you some flowers, would it be weird to you? Like for an anniversary, or to congratulate you on winning something, or just to show appreciation, etc.