What are your thoughts?

[Anonymous]

Is sleeping with someone when dating someone else but your not official cheating?

Absolutely Not!

Absolutely yes!

A total of 11 votes were cast: 3 girls and 8 guys. See detailed results

[JacobJordan]

You are dating someone. You slept with someone other than the person you are dating... this isn't rocket science. You cheated. I don't understand how people communicate more and yet they are dumber and than ever. Once you agree to a date you are dating. It is literally the definition of the word. There is no need to ask for exclusivity because again... DATING. The non exclusive form of dating is called hanging out. Dating=exclusive, hanging out=not exclusive. You don't ask a girl "hey you want to hang out with me 1 on 1?" It sounds ridiculous. You ask a girl "hey do you want to go on a date (with me)" notice the implication that the date is 1 on 1, no one else it is phrased as an exclusive thing for a reason.

[Zestyassmf1997]

How long have you been dating? Are you also dating the person you’re sleeping with? Do they know about each other? If they asked, would you tell?

[Asker]

On and off around 9 months. Yes sleeping with them. Told me straight away

[Zestyassmf1997]

They’re both cool with it? All good, then.

[Asker]

I was upset a first but then there wasn’t technically a commitment was there

[Zestyassmf1997]

Be wary of relying on, “technically.” We’re not in a court, after all.

[Asker]

Haha what do you mean?

[Zestyassmf1997]

I mean if you have to justify something using a technicality, it’s probably not really ethical.

[Nikki1989]

Dating alone doesn't mean it is anything serious.

[boggboss]

If their was no expectation or understanding of exclusivity then its fine

[Anonymous]

Until you are officially in a relationship it isn't cheating.

[laly520]

while dating? thats cheating

[Anonymous]

No, I am against that.