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Yeah, nobody reads books anymore, and only 20% of the reader market is male. But men, what would you read if given a choice?

Bought a house together 2 years ago, no promise or engagement ring and been together for almost 6 years. Still paying him back for slice of pizza, nail clippings from vet for a pet we got together, and gas money for driving me to work when my car was in the shop, plus gifting him some money just cause

Hi guys
So my and my partner has been together for years and now we have a baby
I gave birth over a month ago to our daughter

Anyway so I have this friend
she's been in multiple relationships
But she recently broke up with her ex of 3 years
And now she's hooking up with different guys etc
When i gave birth, she came to visit the hospital and gave me chocolates and flowers

But thing is… now she's pregnant?
She was so happy to tell me

She said she's going to keep the baby even when the guy she hooked up with blocked her and disappeared

And the guy that she hooked up with.. is the same nationality as my partner

The thing is.. why did she suddenly want to get pregnant after I gave birth?
Why didn't she get pregnant with her ex when they were together for 3 years?
Is she copying me?

I've known this guy for 4 years now (since my freshman year, we are seniors now) and we became friends last year and have gotten closer since. I started liking him at the end of last school year. He has had a couple of bad relationships and broke up with his ex last winter. By June last year I decided to text him on ig and we would text here and there. He was sending me major mixed signals so I decided to tell him I like him. He told me that he didn't like anyone at that point and I made sure to let him know that I wanted to be friends

Over summer we texted occasionally, having normal conversation. Then school started back up and ever since he has been treating me different. He has always teased me lots but now it is more so. He also started talking to me more and singling me out in groups (making eye contact and convercing with mainly me). I think he started to catch feelings

We continued to talk and text and at one point he called me randomly, saying he was driving so he could text, we ended up staying on the phone for 2 hours just talking. The next week he called, that time we ended up in the phone for 4 hours and he fell asleep on the call. While we were on the phone I told him about a movie I wanted to see and he asked who I was going to go with, because I told him I don't like going to the movies alone, I said I wasn't sure. He then offered to go with me so a week later I invited him. We made a plan and he even offered to pick me up and drive together. We went had a good time

Ever since he's been super hot and cold with me. He will engage in conversation with me a lot, then next thing I know he's ignoring me. Recently he replied to my story on ig of a picture of me and my friend. He said "you look very nice". Later that week I texted him and he had just lost a wrestling tournament and got injured and was texting super dry. I called him out on it and all he said was "I'm gonna go ahead and ghost" then he did. So major mixed signals. I don't know if he likes me

.. Is that just a mirroring thing that all humans do? Blushing when the person we are talking to is blushing? Or does that mean he likes me? I dunno.

Just hear people talk about it all the time. Whats your view of yourself?

Im ugly so that makes me lower but I have strong morals and show care by actions!

Everytime i show/tell people what this guy did they dont understand and are confused why they would behave like this

So i dont know if those who have read my previous msgs or not, but we go to play cards, he stroked my hand one night then the next month id seen him he was ataring and at one point pointed his hands together towards me with his mouth open whilst holding eye contact

Would u class this as flirting? Please be honest and dont just say yes if u feel its being nice, my mum keeps saying this is the only reason why people are agreeing with me!

If youve seen this q before no need to comment, just vote. Thanks!

How do u like it? I like a nice hot mocha coffe with toffeenut syrup

My ex and I were in a 4.5 year relationship before he ended it about 7 months ago now. His mom and I, while I was with her son, didn't have the best relationship due to external factors like my family's stance on the union and other things since it was an interracial relationship. After the split, she became kind towards me and helped me emotionally/mentally as a mother figure, basically treating me drastically differently than before. She even told me the day after the breakup that she believes her son needs to mature during this time to be ready for marriage with me since we were planning on getting engaged this upcoming year. That obviously should've been kept to herself since I was in a vulnerable place and assumed that he told her that, which led to delayed healing.

Since then, I have met up with my ex's parents a couple of times just because they wanted to see me, and they have treated me with tremendous respect and kindness. They invited me to their home to help paint furniture, and during that time, the mom kept referring to me as daughter-in-law even though my ex and I hadn't spoken to each other in months. We also talked about my healing during that time, and she supported my journey. Her son's birthday was in October, and she asked if I wished him a happy birthday. I said no since he told me that he wasn't comfortable with me communicating with him at the beginning of the breakup. My birthday was in December, and she didn't wish me a happy birthday, but today, she wished me a happy holiday season and asked if I was dating anyone. I didn't respond to her question and was taken aback by it since there was no reason for her to ask that. I have removed him and that whole family from my social medias, so maybe that's part of the reason why? Do you think my ex is asking her to find out on his behalf? Why wouldn't he just message me to find out?

When you are judging others, how do you decide if a person is "good"?

I believe that any person attempting to make the world better by minimizing harm to the world and other living things as well as fostering personal growth in others is good.

Most things I do, I do with music playing. It helps control my mood, exercise, and productivity. I don't think I could function well in a world without music. How about you?

A guy I've gotten to know and I often engage in a lot of banter.
We have the same sense of humor, so we often call one another ugly names and then laugh our asses off.
He calls me Quasimodo, I call him Dickhead. It's something we thoroughly enjoy.
We don't hang out outside of our mutual community, but we do often spend time together when we're there.
Recently I joked about his behaviour to which he replied "but you still love me" then waited for my reply. I pinched my fingers together a eventually said "just a tiny bit, but only if it's mutual," he replied by pinching his fingers like I did and said "just a tiny bit". Give two playful punches in my belly and walked away.
I jokingly exclaimed "Hey, my baby!" To which he replied "Doesn't it sit on your backside?" Referring to my ass. I laughed along and said it was a conjoined twin, and the two of us kept joking about my "twins" for a minute before I left.
We have interactions like this more often than not, which is why I thought he might be interested. However, I just now learned he is in a relationship with someone.
Is this kind of behaviour normal when you're in a relationship or would you consider it (emotional) cheating or whatever term you'd use?

Travel magazine Condé Nast Traveller has released a new ranking of the 26 most stunning castles in Europe.

The poll is the top six, I don't necessarily agree with it and question if some are actual castles, but hey ho that's what they've come up with.

But which of their Top Six is your favourite

My sales record would say A but I would say my social skills are bad I was just honest and thats why I sold I guess😅

I'm definitely going with B. Even though IQ is overratted and I would much rather have higher EQ than IQ...

If you don't like it, she could always grow it back.

If you add the cabbage concoction aka curtido to a quesadilla, doesn’t it taste the same as a pupusa 🫓?

AND if you DONT add the curtido to a pupusa it taste like a quesadilla?

if both made with hand made tortillas of course.
don’t compare a flour quesadilla or a store bought tortilla quesadilla to this.

I’m specifically talking about a homemade corn tortilla for the quesadilla to compare it with a pupusa 🫓

and strictly comparing cheese stuffed, not other ingredients like beans or meats etc