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Considering you never really talked and only see her regularly.

i think good boys are harder to find.

good girls means wifey material and good boys means hubby material

I don't know if asking who is more “dangerous” is the right word, so I say “vengeful” maybe? #FeelFreeToList

I'm hurting right now and very upset. My suspicious were confirmed just 2 days ago when my husband left his FB messenger open. It was messages between him and my SIL (sister-in-law). He admitted to her that he always loved his ex girlfriend Olivia from his much younger years. They met as 9 year-olds playmates, then dated for a short time in their Sophomore year of HS, she broke up the next year and met someone else.

The woman is married but still has him on his FB contact list as friends. He admitted to my SIL that he still loves her more than me. He loves me but I'm not really his first option. He would've wanted to have kids with her. He also said it was true what he once told me while drunk when we were just dating. Then this was the hurting part for me, the SIL asked if he would leave me if Olivia were to get divorced now and she reciprocated his feelings and he reply was a ''Yes, unfortunately I would leave (my name) but that'll never happen. I have to accept being in Olivia's forever friendzone''.

Flashback to the time we were just boyfriend and girlfriend:

We were drinking and while making love, he called me by her name. He literally said ''Oh Olivia, I love you... yeah''. Then tried to fix it right away when I got upset immediately. He called it a stupid drunken mistake and how we would never get drunk like that ever again and even reconfirmed me a bunch of times that he got over her already. I stupidly believed him.

Is this fair? We have a 7 year-old son and he's still obsessing over her? He never got over her and just got with me as second best.

Men in my area used to always wear shorts that were well below the knee, with the absolute shortest acceptable length being knee-length. It was kind of an unspoken rule for men to never let shorts go above their knees.

One day though, starting in around 2020 or so, men in my area began suddenly wearing shorts that were well above the knees and showed some thigh. It was a seemingly overnight change. I thought it would be a trend that went away quickly, but it stuck... and not gonna lie, I REALLY don't like it.

Like obviously other people can wear what they want, but I absolutely HATE how it looks. I don't quite know how to describe why, but it makes men look so... naked? It just looks too revealing. I just don't think men's thighs are a feature that need to be shown off. It's like the male equivalent of women wearing butt cheek shorts.

Like the 3 guys in the above photo, I think they would look IMMENSELY better if their shorts at least went to their knees or slightly below. They just kind of look like they're in their boxers, I guess?

That's not the main issue though. You can't even find the longer men's shorts anymore. My male friends told me this when I asked them about the length of men's shorts these days, and I checked the men's section and could confirm. You just couldn't find anything longer than a 9 inch inseam.

And yeah... I'm just really not liking this trend. If I had a boyfriend I'll make sure he never wears shorts that go above his knees... he'll be allowed to wear knee-length or below the knee shorts only! Lol okay no, not really, he can wear whatever he wants, but I'll just verbalize to him that I REALLY don't like it. I don't necessarily want him to change his fashion choices just to please me, but hopefully I incentivize him to at least TRY longer shorts, and/or buy at least a couple.

TL;DR- I'm just absolutely NOT a fan. I don't know, men's thighs are just not particularly attractive to me.

Question as old as time but still asking. I do both interchangeably based on my level of fatigue.

Here is a list to choose from (could only give 7 options :(

My crush liked recent my instagram posts. We've never really talked because we are kind of awkward every time we are around each other. And he gives mixed signals, like he brings another girl to formals and act intimate, while he still stares at me a lot. He liked my recent instagram posts, while from what I observed, he only likes his friends' post (but we are not really friends).

When asked to describe something people often list the characteristics. But what order do you put those characteristics? If you were to describe this girl's hair which order would you use?

Yes, I know English does it backwards to everywhere else and puts the noun at the end but this is an English-speaking site so let's keep it simple.

I was reading about recording artist Jerry Lee Lewis and his wife and apparently young Myra still believed in Santa on their wedding night.

ARTICLE: On December 12, 1957, Jerry married Myra Gale Brown.

Would this be a turn-on or a turn-off for you? VOTE BELOW!

Why is there a problem when women AND men say this? Kids and women can’t go outside at night by themselves because they have to worry about some man raping them. Men have been oppressing and harming women since the beginning of TIME and most evil things in the world ARE DONE BY MEN. Why in the world is there any negative feedback when this is said? Most men are horrible people.