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My favorite color is black.


So my colors for my living room
It either :

Grey black and white
Black
Black and red
Black and blue

Hello, I have a close friend of 8-9 years and she doesn't listen to me no matter how much I warn her. I am not a social person who likes to talk on the phone and text every day. Even the closest person I call (my family) doesn't take more than 1 hour to talk to. No matter how well I warn my friend or express my discomfort, she calls and texts me every day, no matter what I do. I think she is trying to see if I am just looking at my phone, even on Instagram. She is not a bad person, but this friendship harms me and I become unable to do my daily work. I stayed up late last night because of their selfish behavior, I was late to work because i couldnt wake up in morning. What are your thoughts on what you would do if you were in this situation?
Note: Every time I warn her, a fight breaks out, she says i am manipulating her, or she gets angry. Or she would make an excuse like "I haven't been doing this for years, I have a problem now", but even when she said she wasn't doing it, it was just a little bit less than that, it was still the same, and I was uncomfortable.

Such as an argument or a fight?

I think I like the look of short-haired dogs more. Plus, less hair means less maintenance. 😂

Hey everybody

Help me pick a costume please.

As we all know, Europe needs solar power and wind etc.

This morning I heard the news that Israel Palenstine are fighting more than usual.

If they end up killing each other off and leveling the buildings in the progress, some people (not me of course) say we could put windmills and solar all over the place.

Is that a good idea?

Even in front of your crush?

i started wearing stuff occasionally when i was 12 (just mascara, lipgloss, liptint, eyeshadow or/and blush though). only started wearing skin stuff and eyeliner, and putting stuff on very often when i was 15 1/2

Say it's a friend who is a bad communicator. How long would you try reaching out or engaging them in conversation with little to no response before you say screw them.

Yes, I wish I were immortal. I love life too much.

A guy I was casual with started acting differently for the last couple of days I was with him - he put less emphasis on sex, and wanted to take long walks, talk, wach a movie together, cuddle... We also talked about our values, ideal partner and vision of the future, and we're really compatible. I would take this as him liking me.

BUT, this was the first time I experienced "slow love /like". So despite showing clear signs of liking him, I was so focused on not being in love that I thought I had no romantic interest in him, and told him that. When I came back home, he ghosted.

I asked if everything was okay, still no reply, but he kept tabs on me by viewing my every story and status. I decided to remove him from my socials and delete his number. But it felt wrong doing it without saying goodbye, so just before deleting his no., I messaged to say goodbe, also called him out on ghosting and immaturity (worded in non-accusatory manner), and mentioned I liked him. Suddenly he replied with a smiley, said he was ohw home, and that he would get back to me later. But... he ghosted again.

Today I was talking with a guy friend who was sure he liked me, and we realized this might have pushed him away: (note he's 25, and I'm in my early 30s)

while we were talking about our visions of the future and the right partner, I mentioned I don't want to wait anymore. I meant I want to find the right person soon, and not settle down (I have things to take care of before that, which will take some years). But it might have come off as the latter given the context

Now this is bugging me, and I really want to say something (maybe a couple of weeks from now). But I don't know if he would still ask about it or ghost (see below)

What would you do in his place?

1. Would you still ask me about it after I told you I liked you, despite thinking I was ready to settle down? So to clear the confusion

2. Would you rather ghost to spare your own feelings because you were sure I was ready to settle down?

He stares for 10 seconds from afar and sometimes secretly watches me and quickly looks away when I catch him every time he sees me on campus but he has a girlfriend for about 2 months that he posted several vacation pics on Instagram with. Why does he do that? We don’t talk so I don’t know him that well